Conversation Between amjad93 and DontJudge
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Wow, that's a rude way to talk about your ex-girlfriend!
You obviously still care about her, that's why you're asking these questions, so shush!
Yeah, but that's the fing tho inneh, there's always be those 'problems'.
And people always say 'Ooh but at first it was great'.
That's the usual problem find when they date.
Because it's usually the first months or so where it's at it's peak of happiness, but then when you start living with each other and stuff, is when it goes down hill, and you've done literally everything..there's nothing to look forward to anymore, if you get me...
That's why for some that do get arranged marriages, they tend to say, there's always something 'new' they learn about their partners every single day, and build a relationship slowly like that...
I dumped that whore ages ago, what I'm saying is we were really close for like a month, If it was arranged there would have been a wedding or something, but actually "living" with her and seeing her and what she's like natuarlly and at home if you understand... that's what caused us to seperate, without it we probably would have got married lol.
Certain aspects of Islam, like the ones related to this I don't agree with 100 per cent...
Amjad is my flat mate..
I see what you mean, but Islam doesn't allow dating, I dated, more than a friend less than a partner type of thing... a girl from my course, we were really close and she start talking about houses and kids, I was like "we're getting married?
It was only through dating her that we actually got to see and understand each other properly to see if we ould work, not over tea and biscuits.
I believe in most of the teachings and really love the beauty of Islam, some things, mentioned above, I don't...
His account is new so he had to verify it I think
Well, I can't really answer that for you properly, since i'm not a scholar mate, that's why I adviced posting in the Islamic society with your query, and there will be people there, who are able to give a better answer.
Here's the link to the Islamic Society in this website :http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...c#post37141813
But there are other ways you can get to know a girl, apart from 'dating'. Plus the most common way for educated muslims now, is to find their future partner in University, or websites like SingleMuslim.com. People may joke about it, but thats what people do now.
It doesn't mean you are no longer muslim. There is always room for change and forgiveness. People will make mistakes, some trivial, and some really sinful. If you have made some really sinful ones, you just need to pray for forgiveness, and show that you are willing to change, by becoming more dedicated to your faith. So the question is mate, are you?
My name is Belal, this is friends account he made it earlier for me.
What does Mangi, Gonnab and Kabol heh mean?
And why do you type like that? But I don't know if you are serious or not, but basically.
I don't want to have an arranged forced marriage becuase I have to spend the rest of my life with the Girl, we have to know each other, why can't we date? Or how else do we know if were right for each other.
I have engaged in pre marital intercourse and relationships, does that mean I am no longer a Muslim or that I have to stop and give up my opinion about dating and marriage?
And the other thing you asked, I haven't been on here for a month... And how do I find the Islam website, I saw it on the main homepage feed thing, but it went after refreshing.
Eh...howcome it says that?!
is it cos ur a trolll??
copy and paste it so i can understand
It said it's checking my writing and stuff for moderation or something.