cyfer (Offline)

What a pity: I was casually reading over your thread and wanted to congratulate you on showing a much more mature and calm approach than you showed on your original post. I then saw the thread was closed to me! There's nothing wrong with wanting self-improvement, but (and I know you're aware of this now) there is something very unattractive about false arrogance. Really pleased that you took my advice on board though to think about (!) regarding not viewing every attractive woman as something more than a friend instantaneously upon first meeting. Reading through the posts gives me the impression of someone who is actually very genuine. Don't label women as 'x/10' without also noting their personalities; don't start a thread called 'picking up girls' which strongly conveys sexist undertones. Confidence comes from within, and if you stop dedicating so much time towards trying to get women to like you and/or be impressed by you and actually DO things that lead to that respect (i.e. being great academically, being great at music/sport/acting/debating/whatever), you'll come to like yourself a lot more than you appear to and your outward displays of confidence will take on a far deeper meaning internally as they'll have some foundation. You'll also be a far more attractive person. Trust me; I'm a girl. I know how these things work. Even if a guy is charming, confident, good-looking/toned, this pales in comparison to someone who's really worked hard and has made something of who they are - there is NOTHING more attractive than that. Anyway - well done. Friends?

The reason why I 'elaborated on the same point,' as you put it, was because several posters responded to my original post. This became a discussion.

The main point I want to put across to you is this: the mentality that girls are looking for someone should never be a main thought. It doesn't matter if they are and it doesn't matter if they're not: the point is, I feel that going up to girls because they're good-looking and internally rating them out of 10 because you want to see if you can get anywhere with them instead of initially wanting to be friends is quite wrong. It is frankly unfulfilling to spend so much of you time concentrating on that sole aspect of a relationship, but then again it's your life. I was pleasantly surprised by the tone of your message today, given the rather terse post I had on my visitor feed yesterday. Please don't threaten to 'have the mods block someone from arguing from a thread again' unless you have good reason to: as we have established, I gave my own opinions. I fail to see how discussing this point with other members of TSR was wrong when this thread was quite clearly geared towards getting advice.

Your whole new attitude, from your old forum you sounded like a nice guy who just wanted to meet some girls, but now your somewhat Alpha, rating girls out of 10, rejecting people because they are slightly chubby and cocky comments to try get phone numbers, you focus wayyy too much on trying to get girls, rather than just letting it happen slowly and naturally, nobody wants to date an arrogant douchebag

I was not deliberately arguing on your thread, but found your labelling of girls as 'x/10' offensive. I also wanted to state that many girls approach guys and that a lot of girls don't want to be viewed as potential ONS/girlfriends, but merely friends. You could have taken that on board as 'advice' if you had so wished. Having stated my opinion, I have no wish to be further involved with a thread that I have a lot of problems with.

To be honest, I mainly watch his fitness stuff.

...this isn't saifur is it?

Hahaha I've stopped bothering putting any effort in my replies to you a long time ago.

And as for blocking, I'm not too sure tbh, I've added you to my ignore list though, immature 16 year olds are annoying as ****.

Isnt it funny how I saw right through your bull****.

No one else in that thread did.

Why didn't you admit this on that thread?

Two faced coward.

And if my profile pic scares you (which isnt even me) then you need to man the **** up.

Psychological issues? Nah.

Trying to seem cool over the internet? Yes.

As was your pathetic explanation yesterday that "only guys that masturbate over girls on the street are pathetic".

When in reality, you've realised saying all guys that masturbate are pathetic doesn't bode well. So you've quickly come up with a explaination that targets a certain group of guys that masturbate in order not to offend as much.

And even though 99% of guys regularly masturbate over porn you'll still stick to your explaination no matter what.

You could ask, why am I even going into details about this? Why do I sound butthurt?

And the answer would be because you're mildly entertaining lol. I really couldn't give a **** just like you.

Anyway catch ya later man hahaha.