babyfaceray (Offline)

Sorry I didn't reply sooner; I didn't realise I had a message from a visitor xD

I wouldn't say I'm sweet, I'm just frustrated people feel insecure about themselves when, a lot of the times, it's just... Not necessary, I think. A lot of people put themselves down, and as someone who's been there and done that, it just angers me someone can put themselves in such a vulnerable position :/

Happy to help though buddy

Chad.

BTW - What are you wanting to do when you're older?

Hey Just thought I'd send you a message and say I think what you posted about your self was enormously brave, but I do want to clarify, not all men are complete douchebags :P

And I'm sure your not ugly dude But I find myself not thinking about it... Well, is really the only answer to your self-conciousness, I'm afraid. What I've found is, if you can get people to concentrate on other aspects of yourself, you can really shift the attention away from looks.

I'm obese - but because people see me as immensely charismatic, it didn't matter about my weight.

hope this has helped,

Chad.