Hey, this is my first post on here. I didn't know where else to go to ask if I should be embarrassed or not?
I have done anal sex once before and there were no accidents, but we only tried it for not very long, as we had no lube and it was way too dry for me.
Last night we tried it again because I was on my period and I wanted to have sex with him before we both go to uni soon. I went toilet 2/3 hours beforehand and had a good wash aswell.
We then had the sex but at the end, I realised when he had pulled out there was a small mess on the condom.. he didn't say anything about it, and I didn't either and didn't feel bad about it because I thought it was expected to happen if we were doing it up the bum.
There was some mess in my knickers after when I got home aswell, and I just wondered if I should feel embarrassed about the accident.. I mean, something like that was expected to happen, I'm just worried about what he will think abut me?