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21, m, final year of uni and 'still' a virgin

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Tetrahydro
There's always rape too.


necrophilia gets my vote.
If you want a meaningful relationship you just have to wait for it to happen naturally.

If you want to lose your virginity I'm sure you could pick up someone desperate in a club.
Anonymous
It might not happen soon, but my advice would be work on yourself.

Hit the gym, get contact lenses or nicer glasses, switch up your style, take up a few new hobbies that are accessible to your everyday person who you could chat to about, maybe go out and see some countries, learn how to dance (which depends on which types of women you want to date).

Ultimately, you'll lose it when you've achieved self improvement.

As for your attitude, well... you're a nice guy, but you need a bit more a killer instinct. If you watch lots of porn - stop for a bit, and instead aim on trying to vent that sexuality in finding a woman.

Disregard all that 'it'll happen one day', as that revolves around some notion of fate. You need to put yourself out there.


Why on earth are you anon?


IMO OP is gay.
Reply 123
GentleGuy
probs do need to take up a few hobbies i guess. at the moment i simply play guitar, listen to music, play video games, watch porn (what guy doesnt?!)


lmfao you count watching porn as a hobby? why not add stroking yourself to that list to :pinch:
white_haired_wizard
necrophilia gets my vote.


I think rape covers necrophilia. Well, unless you get written consent before the girl dies.

Anyway, I need some sex... where did I leave that contract?

:biggrin:
dzeh
lmfao you count watching porn as a hobby? why not add stroking yourself to that list to :pinch:


goes without saying, dunnit? Watching porn equates to the stroking of ones penis.
Tetrahydro
I think rape covers necrophilia. Well, unless you get written consent before the girl dies.

Anyway, I need some sex... where did I leave that contract?


Just thinking about it makes me want to bash one out.
Reply 127
You can't turn down sex and then moan about being a virgin.

Try internet dating.
Reply 128
white_haired_wizard
goes without saying, dunnit? Watching porn equates to the stroking of ones penis.


not if one has erectile disfunction, although i guess its still possible :wink:
Reply 129
Join the club dude
Reply 130
Move out. You wasted three years of the best socialising time in your life. Screw "saving for the future and a family". You won't get one unless you go out there, meet people and gain confidence from actually talking to people.
Copacetic
Losing virginity, getting women etc. does not equal a "better person". Sorry.


:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

now you're just clicking buttons here.

OP can either do what he's always done.............and in all probability become a 22-year-old virgin, or do everything in that paragraph and reap the rewards in time to come.

MikeL230
Why on earth are you anon?


I agree with this............you have an opinion, you have to own it. Nothing wrong with what you wrote there.
gosh you sound like my boyfriend.
he is such a popular and considerate guy, treats everyone really respectfully but still knows his own mind. Before he met me he had loads of female friends who only ever saw him as a friend and he got rejected a few times. I was his first kiss and everything and he is a handsome guy.

What I think is that it will happen for you, and you'll be so glad you waited. And at least, having waited, you will more than likely have a meaningful relationship :smile:

Its guys like you that in a few years girls will be gagging to settle down with
dzeh
not if one has erectile disfunction, although i guess its still possible :wink:


penis stroking is penis stroking, bro. ED or no ED. rofl.
Reply 134
L i b
Every single :snow::snow::snow::snow::snow::snow::snow: day we get this :snow::snow::snow::snow:. Every :snow::snow::snow::snow::snow::snow::snow: day. Do you know what it's doing to our mental health?

"Oh, I'm a virgin, nanananana; isn't my life so :snow::snow::snow::snow:?" Well, guess what: nobody gives a tinker's cuss. Hell, given my own teenage fumblings and dalliances with neurotic girls back in the day, I'm inclined to say you're the lucky ones. Now go and have a :snow::snow::snow::snow: and quit your moaning.

lol calm down
Like, go out and get laid.... tisn't hard you know.
Reply 136
This is going to be me in 2 years, can't wait. :cool:
Reply 137
Don't over think it.
Hmmm. A photo would be helpful to see if you need to work on your image/style/hair????

Most gals, though they won't always admit it, firstly base the guy on looks.
*RedRose*
lol calm down


Lib's a virgin himself, clearly. Going off his ranting, he's clearly very frustrated.

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