I have a question for girls with bfs here.
Over the years, I've gotten my fair share of phone numbers, kisses and dates with girls who have got bfs. And the thing is, I didn't even know they had bfs until much later down the line; they always tried to hide the fact they had a bf from me at the beginning.
In your view, why do girls with bfs do this?
I actually think a girl having a bf is no reason to stop pursuing her. If a girl was totally happy with her bf, she wouldn't be hanging out with me. If a girl is willing to do stuff with a guy she's just met (i.e. me), she can't be happy with her bf, in which case it's fair game to pursue her like I would any other girl I like.