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Has my boyf been watching porn? Again??

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Original post by Anonymous
Kind of is her business, less of the porn stuff though, but if her boyfriend has promised her something and then has gone behind her back? That's not good is it?


Lol fail OP. We can see it's you.
Reply 61
Original post by RabbitCFH
Lol fail OP. We can see it's you.


HAHA, completely missed that. Classic.
Original post by Anonymous
Kind of is her business, less of the porn stuff though, but if her boyfriend has promised her something and then has gone behind her back? That's not good is it?


Haha, this is very embarrassing OP. Even when you're anonymous TSR tells us which posts are from the OP.
Original post by paddyman4
Haha, this is very embarrassing OP. Even when you're anonymous TSR tells us which posts are from the OP.


That's *******s! Only admin, supers and H&R mods can see who is anonymous.
Reply 64
Original post by Loz17
That's *******s! Only admin, supers and H&R mods can see who is anonymous.


I think he meant the "Thread Starter" title under the Anonymous username :wink:
Original post by Archmage
I think he meant the "Thread Starter" title under the Anonymous username :wink:


:rolleyes: Fair enough
Magnus opus, if there's one thing in life I'd like to share with you, it's that boys and porn are like peas in a pod. Simples!
:smile:
Reply 67
I hope he dumps you, you seem like a paranoid obsessive cow who needs to get therapy before being in a relationship.

My advice to him: run and don't look back.
Original post by Archmage
See I thought it was you. I should really buy a subscription so I can keep track of this stuff.


Naa wasn't me mate!
I dont neg people for expressing opinion :smile:

I know what you mean though, I'd love to see who is negging me for some of these things... I got negged for asking for a photo of a certain accommodation on the 'post your dorm' thread :eek:
Wouldn't the cookies have saved from the first time he went on?
Reply 70
Lol @ people falling for the troll. Read carefully through the first page again, in particular the Anonymous' posts.
I understand the insecurity.
I went to put a DVD in at my boyfriend's house and was shocked at the disc I had to take out!

I think you shouldn't tell him he can't though, if he watches that and he's still into you, you don't have a problem x
The best thing to do is be upfront to him & explain why it is that you don't like him watching porn, your insecurities like you said.

I don't understand why some ppl don't have a problem with it & why loads of ppl negged you, I get where you're coming from, he shouldn't need to satisfy himself via watching porn when he is in a relationship, because really the only reason ppl watch porn is to get off which is fine when you're single but I wouldn't want my bf to watch porn because he has me.

Also ppl are forgetting that not only is he going behind your back & keeping it a secret, but he also made a promise which he didn't keep, plus he knows that what he is doing is wrong because he is trying so hard to cover his tracks by deleting his browser history.

My advice is to just talk to him, let him know you're upset by his actions. Ask why he needs to watch porn.

Good luck :smile:.
Talk about control freak. Men are women are different when it comes to getting off. Men are in general more visual so porn is mainly tailored to them,when they have made efforts to attract women to porn it has been a fail.This is a common complaint you are making ,however what is not talked about is erotic fiction the main buyers of it are women, and it contains a lot of hardcore sex, in fact in some cases harder than what guys view on their computer screens.

I fail to see the difference, it's not like he will ever meet these girls is it?Don't tell me you haven't glanced at a cute guy either. You might also want to ask him what he likes in bed, because if you are lying there like a wet fish it's no wonder he is turning to the internet is it? You want to get your act together and stop acting like a miserable cow,because the no 1 reason why men cheat is because of girlfriends being prudes, control freaks and not doing it for him in bed. 'she just doesn't understand me' while his new piece of ass is whispering sweet nothings in his ear.
Original post by Charlottelisabeth
The best thing to do is be upfront to him & explain why it is that you don't like him watching porn, your insecurities like you said.

I don't understand why some ppl don't have a problem with it & why loads of ppl negged you, I get where you're coming from, he shouldn't need to satisfy himself via watching porn when he is in a relationship, because really the only reason ppl watch porn is to get off which is fine when you're single but I wouldn't want my bf to watch porn because he has me.

Also ppl are forgetting that not only is he going behind your back & keeping it a secret, but he also made a promise which he didn't keep, plus he knows that what he is doing is wrong because he is trying so hard to cover his tracks by deleting his browser history.

My advice is to just talk to him, let him know you're upset by his actions. Ask why he needs to watch porn.

Good luck :smile:.


that is just awful advice. men (whether single or in a relationship) watch porn. having a girlfriend isn't enough to satisfy a mans sexual requirements, men like variety when it comes to sex. another thing about men (which you don't seem to understand) is that we don't like being confronted about sex by our partners, it's very awkward and unsettling. this girl simply has to accept it because she's not going to stop him. he wouldn't have to keep it so secret if she didn't have such a childish problem with it. another thing, just because a man watches porn it doesn't mean that he's no longer sexually attracted to his partner, he just wants something else as well. some guys actually watch porn with their girlfriends to enhance their sexual relationship; watching porn is just for single men, don't be so naive.
Original post by Colour Me Pretty
I really don't get why some girls have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn. I'd encourage it!


Um why?:mute:
Original post by Casshern1456
Um why?:mute:


Why not?
I think it's perfectly healthy and it can spark off new ideas to incooporate into your sex life. Porn is fantasy and I certainly wouldn't feel insecure about the fact he was getting a bit of gratification from a pair of over inflated boobs with a big bucket inbetween their legs.
Reply 77
Original post by Sithius
Lol @ people falling for the troll. Read carefully through the first page again, in particular the Anonymous' posts.


ha brilliant isn't it. Love it when ops are idiots.
Original post by Loz17
That's *******s! Only admin, supers and H&R mods can see who is anonymous.


If you read my post there is no reasonable way to misinterpret it in the way you have.
Reply 79
Masturbation is healthy. It helps to release dead sperm cells, thus telling him not to do so without pleasuring him yourself, is not a good idea.

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