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Boyfriend asked me to sleep with his friends!?!

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if this was the other way round people would telling him he would be an idiot to refuse. grrr double standards..
Reply 21
You will find someone that loves you more than him. Get out of the relationship before things get worse.
Souhds to me like he wants to swing with you.

If you don't want to be in a swinging relationship - that's fine - but he does and you should leave

Some guys can like their "gf" very much but love watching her with other guys - that's swinging.

The money thisng - well, that's a pretty stupid thing to say on his part - and very insulting. I sensible girl would remind her boyfroend that she is not his whore and FOR THIS REASON you should leave.

I'm sorry miss, but the sooner you leave this relationship the better because you can not give him what he wants, and you do not want to be what he wants. Plenty more guys out there.
No guy who really loves you would want to share you with ANYONE let alone his friends. Leave him, seriously. No matter what he says about you not finding anyone else, don't listen to him. You will find someone else and seriously you are probably better off with no one than with him.
Original post by Anonymous
I know but we;ve been through so much :frown: he was there when no one else was :frown: I am physically repulsed by it, I have tried to leave him but he said that i'll never find anyone who loves me like he does because no one else will understand me :'(


What he says is bullsh*t.

There will be other people who come along who will understand you and love you. FACT.

True, these people are rare for all of us, but there are more and you will find this out one day.
Oh so now your boyfriend can predict your future? He just wants to act out a porn scene with you and his mates.
Reply 26
Leave him!
Reply 27
Yeah, everyone have a go at the guy for sharing his sexual desires with his GF! What a bastard! :sigh:


All right, he didn't go about it the best way, but at least he's talking to her. Not everyone has the same, mainstream sexual desires at others. To be honest, I don't think it was him offering to pimp her out to his friends, more he wants that situation, because he finds it attractive and was trying to think of a way to make her want to do it aswell. Which was stupid of him. But come on guys, cut him a bit of slack.
Reply 28
But where will I go? I live with him, I know i sound stupid and i hate myself for it....its sucha mess
So he's a pimp ?
edit:ah just read your last post,you're in a very awkward situation.Don't you know of any close relatives,friends ? :s-smilie:
He's exploiting you otherwise...
Original post by Anonymous
But where will I go? I live with him, I know i sound stupid and i hate myself for it....its sucha mess


Go and live with your parents! Tell that perverted boyfriend of yours to hire a prostitute if he wants to do something like that.
Original post by laughylolly
No guy who really loves you would want to share you with ANYONE let alone his friends.


This is not true - it is possible for a guy to love a woman very much and still get a kick out of watchijng her with another guy. It's not my thing and it's obviously not yours but it does not mean that he does not love you.

Original post by laughylolly
Leave him, seriously. No matter what he says about you not finding anyone else, don't listen to him. You will find someone else and seriously you are probably better off with no one than with him.


This is true though

If you don't want to play that way then don't play that way - he does, you don't, so move on and YOU WILL find someone else.
Lol youv'e had a threesome before?

Of course he wants to share you around, You don't want to deprive him of the sexual experience right?

it's no fun if all your wild days are in the past and he doesn't get to enjoy them, i mean it's not like you have any honour to protect so why you expect him to be jealous?

why you mad tho?
This reminds me of Eastenders.
Original post by silverbolt
FFS Why is that such a knee jerk response on this forum to everything from "he slept with my mother" to "he lost one of my socks"

OP clout him round the head with something hard, tell him to wake the hell up.

Ok asking if youd sleep with his friends is one thing. If you dont ask you dont get and all that. I can understan that but when you said no he should have left it or at least made sure you were serious.

But to then offer you money for it is insulting, crass and just nasty. I dont know whether you you should dump him for it but seriously the guy needs putting in his place.


He is trying to pimp his girlfriend that is not a misdemeanor that really serious she needs to leave him no excuses for this one.
He's just looking out for his mates :borat:
damn If a girls done three-ways, she best fix up, start acting right and do whatever the hell i tell her.
Reply 37
How much are we talking, im skint
Why's everyone flying off the handle? This fantasy is very common...

However OP, if you're not cool with it- you need to tell your boyfriend firmly NO.
If you have to ask TSR you have some serious mental issues.

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