I'm a virgin, never had a girlfriend and barely any experience with girls on any sort of intimate level, but a lot of friends and people i know have said i'm very attractive and that they wished they looked like me or would like to be with a guy like me etc.
I don't feel peer pressure to lose my virginity, I'm just
a) scared of ruining my chances with a girl by it being my first time and being embarrassingly bad at it
and
b) worried that i'm actually undesirable in some way, and that being the reason why nothing's ever happened for me.
Sure, i'm not the most confident guy and i'm a little shy but i'm certainly not socially awkward. I have pretty high standards but so do most of my friends and they've all had more experience than me.
When absolutely nothing has worked for you at the age of 19, not even by accident, it makes you wonder if there's genuinely something wrong with you.