Does anyone here lead a double life???

Why aren't you allowed a boyfriend?you're 22?

Haha!

I don;t feel that bad though, am just trying to keep them off my back about marriage. For now anyways Asian parents!

Well it's not that I'm not allowed a bf, it's just that if my parents know they'll start pressuring me to get married!

Haha yeah I'm 22... Sounds old to you?

By day I am a Conservative and by night I am a Communist.

Oooh...nice...casually stalked your profile and your an Asian babe and a dent student? Me tooo well...going Leeds next year They're already trying to marry you off?! bit early isn't it? Wait a year or 2 after your VT

Well it's not that I'm not allowed a bf, they just wouldn't like me to be dating someone for a long time, and if they know they'll start pressuring me to get married!

Haha yeah I'm 22... Sounds old to you?

I am the 5%. My mother's pretty cool (she sets reasonable boundaries but she's quite strict. So for example she's let me go to a few gigs/paid for my guitar lessons but I've never been explicitly told not to drink/date/smoke etc and I've never done those or felt the need to) and I'm not a terribly religious muslim female (well I wear a scarf etc but I feel that I could be better). My mum's pretty awesome.

Guess it depends on how open minded your parents are and how much they are wanting you to integrate.

yeah it does! you grandma maybe your parents should start looking actually

I think you should at least introduce him to them but tell them you're not ready to get married yet.

I'm 15

You don't need to drink, date or smoke to integrate.

Yayyyy hii fellow dentist! I went to Leeds (did biomed) before I started dentistry, you'll love it! Also, be sure to visit Jaldi Jaldi in the students' union... My dad owns it :P

Haha well they're not trying to marry me off really. But when my dad was driving me up to Newcastle at the beginning of the year he asked me if I'd thought about settling down! And that he could introduce me to some guys if I wanted and I could get to know them . I told him I have another 5 years of uni ahead of me so marriage is not on the cards lol. I think it's cos my mum got married when she was 18 and had me at 21, so she sees me as being really old to not be married haha.
Yeah I reckon if I get married it'll be after VT, when I have some money!

By day I'm a mild mannered student, but by night...

It can be both. Britain is a nation composed of multiple cultural and ethnic backgrounds. It would be an accomplishment owned by both their British identity and Asian heritage; both communities would celebrate it.

This is no longer the 19th century where British denotes [caucasian] ethnicity

Ahhh I really hope I like it....I chose Leeds out of Birmingham and Liverpoool. Do you think that was the right choice?? I will visit it

Lol, when my dad came with me to my Leeds interview, as soon as a sikh guy walked past at the dental school his head would just turn! And this was straight before my interview..! I remember just shaking my head thinking...you're already thinking of marrying me off to some randomer on the day of my interview! :|

And no, its not late I think 24/25 is about the right age

Teehee...anywayss time for beddy byess Sweet dreamss fellow dentist x

Living two lives has to be at least twice as difficult!

I'm a non-troll by day and a troll by night, so I guess I lead a double life, on TSR at least.

But seriously?

having said that, you must be a young british asian?

Yayyyy hii fellow dentist! I went to Leeds (did biomed) before I started dentistry, you'll love it! Also, be sure to visit Jaldi Jaldi in the students' union... My dad owns it :P

Haha well they're not trying to marry me off really. But when my dad was driving me up to Newcastle at the beginning of the year he asked me if I'd thought about settling down! And that he could introduce me to some guys if I wanted and I could get to know them . I told him I have another 5 years of uni ahead of me so marriage is not on the cards lol. I think it's cos my mum got married when she was 18 and had me at 21, so she sees me as being really old to not be married haha.
Yeah I reckon if I get married it'll be after VT, when I have some money!