Well, it's not abnormal to dislike one or both of your parents, girl or boy (imho). It certainly doesn't seem uncommon. But I don't think that means all fathers or even all mothers are doomed to have **** relationships with their children - you said it's for a specific reason that you don't like your father, but then you go on to say things that he has said that are quite frankly, dickish things to say, and with a limited amount of information on him, he does sound like a bit of dickhead. So... is is normal for girls (and boys) to hate fathers that act like a dick? Well, of course, it's normal for anyone to dislike anyone who acts like a dick. As someone else said, this is no reason to plan to keep any potential children you have away from their father(s). It's only reasonable to plan to have children with nice, loving, caring fathers who won't treat their children ****ly. Also legally you'd have a job keeping a father away from his children who was really up to the job. I hope you calm down and take this kind of advice to heart - this is serious **** you're talking about, and you shouldn't let your issues with your own father rule/ruin your own life, nor your potential children's lives.