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Original post by Anonymous
That's good! :hugs:
The commentating on snooker always makes me laugh because it all sound so serious and I have no idea what's going on :mmm:
You should do it! :drool:

Hopefully, thanks :smile:
I watched some videos on Bitesize earlier, that counts as revision, right? :ninja:
Thanks aha. It was quite odd, I'm not sure if she meant generally or if she meant something by it.
My mum has come home from work in such a bad mood, hate seeing her like this. I never know how to act around people when they're like that, I find it so awkward.


Haha I guess it's rather more sedate compared to most commentating. :lol:
I did, it was good! Finished off with a cup of tea. :sogood:

It counts :yep:
She might have thought you seemed unhappy and thought you would be cheered up by someone singing your name. :mmm:
Aww I know, it's such an awkward feeling. Hope she winds down soon. :console:
Original post by Webberino
Haha I guess it's rather more sedate compared to most commentating. :lol:
I did, it was good! Finished off with a cup of tea. :sogood:

It counts :yep:
She might have thought you seemed unhappy and thought you would be cheered up by someone singing your name. :mmm:
Aww I know, it's such an awkward feeling. Hope she winds down soon. :console:


Good times!

It did make me laugh, I'll give her that :tongue:
Thanks, my step-dad isn't helping her at all. I hate him so much, it's ridiculous how angry he makes me. :mad:
Kind of looking forward to seeing nurture tomorrow. I forgot to tell her I have a mock in the morning though so I hope she knows about it and puts my appointment outside of it.
I think I alienate everyone I know :frown:
Original post by SciFiBoy
I think I alienate everyone I know :frown:


can i ask what is wrong? and i doubt you alienate everyone sometimes people only do it to allow them self space which maybe what you are doing this is normal every body sometimes needs time to the self and im sure your support network knows that... need to talk?
Original post by sheepstick
can i ask what is wrong? and i doubt you alienate everyone sometimes people only do it to allow them self space which maybe what you are doing this is normal every body sometimes needs time to the self and im sure your support network knows that... need to talk?


people I used to live with apparently hadn't even noticed I had gone...2 months after I moved out :frown: people don't even give a **** about me...none of my friends at Uni have even messaged to ask how im doing for over a month...I message people and they ignore it :frown:

I don't even have a support network...:cry2:
Original post by SciFiBoy
people I used to live with apparently hadn't even noticed I had gone...2 months after I moved out :frown: people don't even give a **** about me...none of my friends at Uni have even messaged to ask how im doing for over a month...I message people and they ignore it :frown:

I don't even have a support network...:cry2:


well you do now :smile: and don't feel like that i know how you feel and believe me i still do it took everything out of me trying to believe that i could and deserved to find good friends and ones that actually care and i guess like you i also turned to the society. has something happened with you and your room mates or ex room mates that may have caused them not to want to talk to you or feel the need for the to ignore you? :console:
Original post by sheepstick
well you do now :smile: and don't feel like that i know how you feel and believe me i still do it took everything out of me trying to believe that i could and deserved to find good friends and ones that actually care and i guess like you i also turned to the society. has something happened with you and your room mates or ex room mates that may have caused them not to want to talk to you or feel the need for the to ignore you? :console:


I don't know :sad: I guess they just didn't like me, I mean, I was kinda bad at socialising with them, but I figured they at least know I was there and stuff, as for my other friends I used to talk to/hang out with them all the time, but no messages at all from them, like now im not at Uni I don't even exist to people anymore :frown:
Original post by SciFiBoy
I don't know :sad: I guess they just didn't like me, I mean, I was kinda bad at socialising with them, but I figured they at least know I was there and stuff, as for my other friends I used to talk to/hang out with them all the time, but no messages at all from them, like now im not at Uni I don't even exist to people anymore :frown:


well you exist to us here :smile: and have you finished uni then as maybe you should try to reconnect with some of you old uni friends go on a night out or something like that so you guys can catch up and see how things go and if not then i grantee you that there are people out there just waiting to meet you :smile: a couple of years ago i ended up in counselling and my confidence was stoked but then i became friends with people i had no idea that i would and maybe what you need to do is to just keep your heart and eyes open and although its difficult try to socialize again i know this is hard i've been there and done that but its worth it in the end :smile:
Original post by sheepstick
well you exist to us here :smile: and have you finished uni then as maybe you should try to reconnect with some of you old uni friends go on a night out or something like that so you guys can catch up and see how things go and if not then i grantee you that there are people out there just waiting to meet you :smile: a couple of years ago i ended up in counselling and my confidence was stoked but then i became friends with people i had no idea that i would and maybe what you need to do is to just keep your heart and eyes open and although its difficult try to socialize again i know this is hard i've been there and done that but its worth it in the end :smile:


thanks :redface: im not finished Uni no, I am intermitting 2nd year cause of health reasons, I tried to message people on facebook but no-one ever replies :/ I have a phone appointment with IAPT but not till 2nd May which is like therapy and stuff, just started new meds as well but will be a while before I expect they work if they do. I don't really know what to do, im too shy and stuff to really go to anything and there isnt much locally that would interest me anyway :/
Original post by warp2125
Yea, I'm all dry and warm now.... I was lucky I did have a waterproof jacket... Didn't save my jeans from the splash though. Yea I have more lecture tomorrow..... Ahh the joys.

Just typing up some notes for an assignment that I will get checked tomorrow.. Yippee! Did feel abit down this morning.... Wasn't looking forward to running into an "what was a friend" again. But I guess times change.... Lol... Never really had that many friends.... Now losing one always feels .... Lousy ....


Well glad you are all warm and dry now ... my mum decided she needed t wash all of my clothes before I got the train back to uni so had to put them on straight out of the dryer and they practically burnt me!

But nah that does suck, totally know how you feel :hugs: because I don't really have friends any more I seem to have a habit of getting overly enthusiastic whenever I manage to actually talk to new people and put waaaaay more into the friendship then they do and then get really really down when I lose them as well! Hope it wasn't too bad running into the silly person though, and hope you are feeling less down now hun!
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I don't see the point anymore. Why does nothing go well for me? Why do I feel so bad? Have a mock exam tomorrow, and don't care about it at all. Studying doesn't interest me anymore. Not until I get friends. I just feel so lonely in school. No one wants to talk to me. I don't exist to anyone else. I feel like giving up now. No more point in doing anything anymore.
Original post by SciFiBoy
thanks :redface: im not finished Uni no, I am intermitting 2nd year cause of health reasons, I tried to message people on facebook but no-one ever replies :/ I have a phone appointment with IAPT but not till 2nd May which is like therapy and stuff, just started new meds as well but will be a while before I expect they work if they do. I don't really know what to do, im too shy and stuff to really go to anything and there isnt much locally that would interest me anyway :/


that's understandable but you have to get yourself out there believe me its worth it i put the time in going out to stupid lunch dates with my friends or who i wanted to be my friends and look at us now i think i'm doing pretty well now, i'm sure your meds will work like they say only time will tell and why not try looking for friends that are your families friends and stuff that might be a good thing to do or something like zumba class this is only an example cuz i know your a dude and doing dance may not be your thing but seriously group things like this can be good because no-one knows you so they cant judge you :smile:
Original post by avhhs
I don't see the point anymore. Why does nothing go well for me? Why do I feel so bad? Have a mock exam tomorrow, and don't care about it at all. Studying doesn't interest me anymore. Not until I get friends. I just feel so lonely in school. No one wants to talk to me. I don't exist to anyone else. I feel like giving up now. No more point in doing anything anymore.


don't it gets better trust me :smile: i went through then soon realized that education is my ticket out :smile: were here to talk
Original post by Anonymous
Good times!

It did make me laugh, I'll give her that :tongue:
Thanks, my step-dad isn't helping her at all. I hate him so much, it's ridiculous how angry he makes me. :mad:
Kind of looking forward to seeing nurture tomorrow. I forgot to tell her I have a mock in the morning though so I hope she knows about it and puts my appointment outside of it.


Laughter is the best medicine :tongue:
Aww what's he doing? :console:
Sure is will be good to see her. Ah hopefully. :hugs:

Still actually haven't heard if my other exams are getting delayed. :K:
If it turns out they're not, I'm beyond hope as I haven't looked at them at all. :lol:
If they still haven't told me by Thursday, mentor will probably chase them up I think.
Original post by avhhs
I don't see the point anymore. Why does nothing go well for me? Why do I feel so bad? Have a mock exam tomorrow, and don't care about it at all. Studying doesn't interest me anymore. Not until I get friends. I just feel so lonely in school. No one wants to talk to me. I don't exist to anyone else. I feel like giving up now. No more point in doing anything anymore.


A lot of people get fed up with education, you're not alone there. As for school...a lot of people say "its the best time of your life" but i call total bullsh1t on that, most of it was trash except very few things. Again, more people feel that way than you may think.

There are always people you mean the world to, parents and family particularly. Maybe you can find strength in them? Or us guys on here, personally i feel terrible when i know someone from here does something bad to themselves.

As for the friends thing, there are plenty of us here :smile: Some of my best mates ive made are across the internet. I'm always up for a chat if you wanna pm or skype me :smile: I see you on this thread a lot, so.
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Original post by Webberino

Welcome! :hugs:
If you have all those symptoms I think it's time to see the gp and see what they can do for you, must be having a big impact on your life.


Yeah its been affecting me since I started sixth form (I'm in Yr13 atm)
I'm on bad terms with my parents and just everyone in general.

I have exams coming up and so I was wondering whether or not it would be a better idea to see a gp after I've finished them?

Also, have there been any cases where depression has just disappeared on its own or is it very rare? :confused:
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Original post by sheepstick
don't it gets better trust me :smile: i went through then soon realized that education is my ticket out :smile: were here to talk


Original post by Meaty_man
A lot of people get fed up with education, you're not alone there. As for school...a lot of people say "its the best time of your life" but i call total bullsh1t on that, most of it was trash except very few things. Again, more people feel that way than you may think.

There are always people you mean the world to, parents and family particularly. Maybe you can find strength in them? Or us guys on here, personally i feel terrible when i know someone from here does something bad to themselves.

As for the friends thing, there are plenty of us here :smile: Some of my best mates ive made are across the internet. I'm always up for a chat if you wanna pm or skype me :smile: I see you on this thread a lot, so.



TBH I don't even see the point in life now. I'm clearly not meant to live. I just want to get out of this. Everything is too hard for me. No one cares about me at all. If I was to die right now, no one would really miss me.
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Original post by Webberino
Laughter is the best medicine :tongue:
Aww what's he doing? :console:
Sure is will be good to see her. Ah hopefully. :hugs:

Still actually haven't heard if my other exams are getting delayed. :K:
If it turns out they're not, I'm beyond hope as I haven't looked at them at all. :lol:
If they still haven't told me by Thursday, mentor will probably chase them up I think.


Just generally being himself. He's gone out now though and my mum seems so much happier :confused:. I don't want to write anything about him in my diary in case it gets back to my mum and she'll be convinced he's doing something to me. She asked me once if he was hurting me in anyway and I denied everything but that makes me think that she can't exactly trust him either.

Eeek! Mentors are certainly good at chasing things up :tongue:
Original post by SciFiBoy
thanks :redface: im not finished Uni no, I am intermitting 2nd year cause of health reasons, I tried to message people on facebook but no-one ever replies :/ I have a phone appointment with IAPT but not till 2nd May which is like therapy and stuff, just started new meds as well but will be a while before I expect they work if they do. I don't really know what to do, im too shy and stuff to really go to anything and there isnt much locally that would interest me anyway :/


seriously though if you do need to talk then all of us on the society are hear for you :smile: so you do have friends all of us are :smile:
Original post by avhhs
TBH I don't even see the point in life now. I'm clearly not meant to live. I just want to get out of this. Everything is too hard for me. No one cares about me at all. If I was to die right now, no one would really miss me.


well i may not know you but i would be sad life is worth living :smile: and your family care about you :smile: so don't its not worth it believe me and considering you would have gone through education for what don't throw it away. i felt like this a couple of years ago and i went to counselling maybe you should try this or we can always talk as no-one judges you here that's what i like about it :smile:

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