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Do many girls actually like a guy with a huge penis?

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I don't, I'd rather a guy had an average sized one. The bigest one I've had hurt in certain positions and I found that offputting to say the least. My current boyfriend is absolutely average sized, and I love that.

I think 'hitting the spot' is more about the angle and shape of the guy's penis and the positions and angles he instinctively goes for, rather than size. With my ex, who was larger, the angle never seemed right and he never hit the spot. With my current boyfriend it just always feels like everything is in the right place :smile:
when it's too big it hurts! it's all about technique ..
Original post by falseprofit
...What I really want to know though is "as a rule of thumb" :rolleyes: : about what average length/girth is just the right size to hit that spot without tearing it apart...

Yes, I'm sure the first thing women do when they see their BF/ONS with a hard on is get the measuring tape...
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anyone else noticed how the guys are saying "yeah it really matters" and the girls are like "no, no," hehe
Honestly if its longer than their hand then your all good.

However it seems if its longer than their forearm it isnt good at all!

One of my friends says if she can deepthroat it then she knows it will fit perfectly without pain lol!
Original post by hollywoodbudgie
It's an insecurity that's been exaggerated too much by the porn industry. :nah:

Unless a woman craves very painful sex, then it won't actually make a difference because when the average woman is aroused, the vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm, (though it can lengthen by almost 200% if 'forced to'), so unless the length is considerably less than 10cm during erect, then length will make no difference whatsoever.

EDIT: Why is this being negged? :lolwut:


I don't know why your being negged, you're totally right, so I'm giving you another possitive. :biggrin:
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Mine was 8.5 when I was 17. I haven't measured it since (I'm 22) but I think it seems to have grown somewhat.

Anyway, wimps and faggots don't hate one women for wanting a big love, I've got to have someone to bone after all.
Original post by thesmileyone69
Its all about foreplay really, I am lucky to have massive hands, with 3" long fingers, I havent come across a gspot I cannot find and get to yet! And thats what really counts; the gspot and the clit.

Penis wise, I am the average 6/6.5, but rather alot of girth. Never had any complaints, only requests for 2nds.

However some of my female friends say they need around 10 inches and only like it when they can feel it hitting the back of their cervix? They actually like the pain :eek:


Gosh....you love yourself a bit much don't you?
Theres a difference in loving myself and being confident in my ability.
Tap-shaped penises FTW

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Original post by Palatial Veranda
Tap-shaped penises FTW

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I think you need to get yourself checked out, if you've got one that you can turn/twist
Original post by PlanetTea
I don't know why your being negged, you're totally right, so I'm giving you another possitive. :biggrin:


That pos was a bit of a waste wasn't it - considering that they're banned?
Well no one really gets the ruler out when in this situation, so I'll be surprised to see actual measurements
I can't give you numbers on when a guy is too large or small, I don't even know the numbers for the guys I've slept with, that's not something you discuss.

Size matters to the extent that, obviously, a guy can be too small. But it's rare. I think about 0,6% of the population is born with a 'micropenis' which does nothing for a woman during sex.
I have never experienced a guy's penis being too small for me to enjoy sex, but I have experienced one being too big (sometimes it's just painful, in this scenario it was simply too big altogether). One ex-boyfriend was slightly on the smaller size, and yes, I remember when I started dating someone new I did like the feeling of a slightly bigger one. But sex was just as enjoyable with my ex. Please remember that 90% of women need repeated clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so your finger and oral skills are of 10x the importance of your penis size.
Vaginas don't vary too much in size, only slightly, and they can 'adapt' to penises of different sizes. Of course after childbirth it will be larger.
An average sized penis can hit the back of your cervix in the right position. There are basically no places a large penis can 'reach' which an average size can't, on a normal woman. If your legs are bent far enough back, an average sized penis can also hurt you by going too deep. There seems to be a bit of ego and illusion attached to this - I know some guys feel 'proud' when a girl complains it hurts slightly. If a girl feels really tight or she complains it hurts, she either hasn't had sex for a while, or - most likely - she's not aroused enough.
Of course some girls like the visual appeal of a large penis. But altogether, enormous penises are overrated as they make both penetrative and oral sex more difficult. My best friend's boyfriend had a very large penis, she mentioned it because it was a problem for them and it took a long time for them to enjoy penetrative sex. I think an average size would actually be of advantage to a man - you can enjoy rough sex with her without hurting her and she has an easier time giving oral sex - she can even deep throat you, which is impossibly for very large penises.
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Some cant handle mine some get scared off, but thats the life i gotta lead
Original post by Aconcernedparent
she can even deep throat you, which is impossibly for very large penises.


Most of what you said is true. Except this. Purely on the basis the vast majority of girls won't even try irrelevant of size...sadly
Original post by de_monies
That pos was a bit of a waste wasn't it - considering that they're banned?


Wasn't when i did it. Plus they'll be back after a few days, so how exactly was it a waste?
Original post by PlanetTea
Wasn't when i did it. Plus they'll be back after a few days, so how exactly was it a waste?


Fair enough. I thought they were banned permanently. Though I wonder why I was negged in my reply to you?
First of all can we clear up the 'wizards sleeve' misconception. If you've experienced large penisii, large implements or otherwise engaged in 'stretched/full' activities it does not automatically mean that your kitten will be disfigured or enlarged. It doesn't mean that all post-massive engagements will result in a 'flicking rice into outer space' experience. This is a myth. Similary, having a baby doesn't necessarily mean your kitty will be unable to feel anything smaller than an Intercity 125 locomotive; kegal & pelvic floor excersises will help retain and retrain muscle tone.

When I was a younger man I wished for a larger chopper, I thought that would impress and make things better for a woman, making me a popular stud to be viewed with awe and admiration by the ladeez whom I were sure were more impressed by size than anything else. Ha! The folly of youth. As I became more experienced and cogniscent of the other factors which impressed the ladeez (confidence, humour, understanding, fingers) I fixated less on my size and more on what else was involved in sex. I finally turned a corner by realising that 'impressing the ladeez' was not really what things were about anyway and definitely not what being someones partner was about.

With one of my partners, (we were in a total exploratory sexual engagement where all manner of sexual activity, some quite shocking perhaps, was engaged upon), I used an 'extension', (not a cheap and tawdry Anne Summers one, please, - Anne Summers really can be the Clinton Cards of the sex world sometimes :rolleyes:) but one made to increase girth and length by a fair few inches in all directions. This wasn't because of any insecurity or lack of satisfaction etc - I can't explain very well but it was just because a) it sounded fun and b) because we could. It was a laugh and one of a huge gamut of experiences we afforded each other. Anyway....

She was delighted, not though from the size in and of itself, but rather the fact that it felt like a different penis, that it was stimulating in different ways than she was used to, that it was a bit kinky and unusual, that it was a bit of a challenge(!) and she enjoyed being stretched. This was just an intense form of foreplay/aftplay though, and it didn't detract from the 'real deal', if that's how you want to describe it. Nor for that matter was it something we 'had' to use again, she was perfectly happy with my winkle and more importantly, the brain attached to it...

For the record, my 'manhood' reaches my belly button, so is about the average. I've posted anon. as otherwise people will think I'm 'larging it', which would be ironic on this thread....
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As I became more experienced and cogniscent of the other factors which impressed the ladeez (confidence, humour, understanding, fingers) I fixated less on my size and more on what else was involved in sex. I finally turned a corner by realising that 'impressing the ladeez' was not really what things were about anyway and definitely not what being someones partner was about.


If legit 'an experienced man', I have a question for you (or a couple). Take these as deadly serious.

How do you develop profound confidence? Not the facade of bravado/contrived attitude style 'confidence', but the relentless, untouchable confidence you see in the cream of the crop. By average man standards, I'm probably fairly confident. But by personal standards...I'm lacking. What do?

How do you learn to tailor humour for mass appeal? I'm pretty damn good with quick-fire wit. But people seem to find it hard to follow my thought pattern sometimes. Like there's a missing link between my comment and what I'm referring to. I'm not sure I want to bite the bullet and follow every mainstream trend in order to make myself as universal as possible...but the flipside would narrow the field drastically.

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