will this put a guy off sex?

okay i'm a girl and 18 and a virgin.. i'm a bit insecure with the apperance of my labia, i know it's a werid question but i think it's longer than what you see from the porn industry as the girls you see just don't even have one? i thought i was completely normal til not so long ago when i came across tumblr.. are there any other girls like me? or if you're a guy would this put you off if your gf had a longer labia? i mean not really long just longer than images i see and stuff..

Reply 1

Grey_Fox

You're normal.

Anyone with any sense and/or experience will know this. Anyone else won't be worth bothering with.

Reply 2

username391622

Honestly don't worry about it, the girls in porn are not an accurate representation of normal girls.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

I have the same kind of thing, neither of my boyfriends cared xD Anyone sensible knows that the women in porn and what they'll do aren't representative of real life at all

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

i'm the same. i've slept with five guys and none of them cared, or probably even noticed for that matter. porn doesn't show how our bodies should 'normally' look, don't worry about it!

That's like saying my breasts are too small, will it put guys off because girls in the porn industry have huge breasts!

A lot of the pornstars undergo some sort of surgery to change the appearance of some of their features so you shouldn't trust porn for a general consensus of appearance.

You'll be fine :smile:

Reply 7

piratefinn

Porn is fake. It's about as real as The Sun is factual. Any good partner should value you for personality.

Reply 8

Skinny3600

Original post by piratefinn

Porn is fake. It's about as real as The Sun is factual. Any good partner should value you for personality.

Some people with the brain of a gold fish would mis read this as the sun in the sky isn't real

Reply 9

iamyourspiritfrombeyondth

It'll take a lot more than that to put most guys off sex.

Reply 10

sexygenocide

It'll be fine. Any guy who is shallow enough to run away from you because of this will probably trip over your flaps on the way out. Justice will be swift.

Reply 11

username266003

Oh my God, your labia is longer than most porn stars' labias?! You will never have sex.

Seriously though, no guy will ever care.

Reply 12

Tedaus

Hate to break it to you, but guys dicks aren't as big as they are in porn either

Reply 13

fitou

Most of those chicks have had their labia "trimmed." Think about that.

Reply 14

riotgrrl

You'll be fine. I have never had any comments on my labia length :tongue:

Reply 15

odkfn

Original post by Anonymous

Most (if not all) guys you sleep with will be far more concerned with the appearance/length/girth/weird bend in their penis than with your genitallia. Seriously though, everyone is different. Don't worry about it!

Reply 16

odkfn

Original post by sexygenocide

It'll be fine. Any guy who is shallow enough to run away from you because of this will probably trip over your flaps on the way out. Justice will be swift.

Ha ha ha ha ha. Amazing.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

hmmmm some are contradicting but thank you for the replies, i feel much better! x

Reply 18

Anonymous #4

I have this too. Wouldn't undress for my boyfriend for so long, I was terrified and embarrassed by it. Finally I just caved in, and have no idea why I was even worried, he didn't care.