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Dating scene

I still have feelings for a friend but we can't be together right now. Would it be unfair of me to go on dates with guys if I still have feelings?

yes. next please.

Unfair on him or the guys you're dating?

I think it is unfair if you want to be with him ultimately because the guys that you're dating may actually be interested in starting a relationship with you and you're seeing them under false pretences.

On the other hand if you want to move on from him then sure, why not?

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Anonymous #1

It's difficult as he said he cannot be with me as he has problems. I know I shouldn't wait as life is too short but I am worried if he finds out I went on dates he thinks I have moved on - part of me still has hope. I agree it's not fair to give other guys false pretences.