at the gym....

No actually, I am very slim and got told I had a 'lean' body by a co-worker who did not stop staring at me when I wore a figure-huggin dress. He even touched my hips. I wrote a post on how uncomfortable and disgusted I felt. Never again. Baggy tops for now.

No actually, I am very slim and got told I had a 'lean' body by a co-worker who did not stop staring at me when I wore a figure-huggin dress. He even touched my hips. I wrote a post on how uncomfortable and disgusted I felt. Never again. Baggy tops for now.

i Googled this expression, but still don't get it. Could not find a definition, only names of companies.

Well that doesn't mean all blokes will. I mean if you've got a nice ass then it isn't going to hurt your chances having it on display, but I can see where you are coming from. If its not there to be seen then if he's interested it'll be because of something else.

Your tits probably.

Joke lol.

Wow aren't you two stud muffins... She doesn't need a lecture on how to flaunt her ass off.

I don't do chit chat in gyms cos I'm there to train and thats it, but every now and then I'll see people chat each other up and it usually starts with them helping each other out with a workout routine or what not. So just ask how something works, or how you can improve this or that etc. You''ll be fine.

Tbh if you spend so much time in the gym and thus have a "lean body" then why don't you use it?

You think your personality will be enough but it won't, because you come across as quite dumb to me. Of course you could be totally different IRL but I doubt it somehow.

obviously I want him to see me as attractive, but not just. Any suggestion n how I could start a convo? He is always surrounded by his workmates and this puts me off slightly.

obviously I want him to see me as attractive, but not just. Any suggestion n how I could start a convo? He is always surrounded by his workmates and this puts me off slightly.

I gave you one at the start didn't I? They normally go around and start cleaning or checking out the talent (that's all I ever see them do anyway). So if you just go up to him and make up some bull**** about needing to improve your fitness or tone up your inner thigh etc. then I'm sure he will help you out.

I gave you one at the start didn't I? They normally go around and start cleaning or checking out the talent (that's all I ever see them do anyway). So if you just go up to him when he is alone and make up some bull**** about needing to improve your fitness or tone up you inner thigh or some other random part of your body, then I'm sure he will help you out.

He will show her to one of those cable machines that women always go and then leave her to it. How can you even believe that this would work?

i am sure he will get the hint. That is too obvious, but I will attempt it.

obviously I want him to see me as attractive, but not just. Any suggestion n how I could start a convo? He is always surrounded by his workmates and this puts me off slightly.

Wow, you must be really attracted to him if you actually want to approach him first because 99% of girls never approach guys or show sympathy... However you are missing the key ingridient here, its called- balls.

I am not going to lie I never approached a girl in the gym because I feel like it isn't the best time for those sort of gym. However the time when you do have a chance is after your workout.
Each instructor has a phone number, it is always a mobile. So all you have to do is text him, starting with silly fitness subjects and moving onto more inter-person stuff. If he is still interested and eager whilst you are talking about his penis or whatever it is you are talking about, you have a winner.