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straight girls would this turn you on?

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Seeing a guy naked doesn't do much for me either, I mean it doesn't get me wet or anything. I like looking at naked men, but it doesn't really turn me on that much, it's just visually pleasing. I've never had a guy **** on cam for me, but I've had guys send me pics of their penis and that doesn't do much for me either. I'm definitely attracted to guys though, I like doing things with guys and prefer feeling a penis myself rather than looking at a pic of it. I think guys are just more visual than girls so they may find this hard to understand.

Like an example of some things which turn me on other than sex (without getting too graphic) are feeling a guy get hard through his clothes or seeing that he's got hard (I find that a massive turn on), kissing and the usual stuff, seeing that I'm pleasuring him e.g heavy breathing or moaning, touching him e.g bum, arms, running my fingers through his hair etc. That's the kind of stuff that turns me on, not looking at pictures.
Nomal,seeing a guy naked doesnt turn me on its the little things about him like his voice thats a big turn on for me, words and stuff like that or there cheeky smile. Or things i find physically attractive like my boyfriend has tattoos so i like seeing those but I to only get really truned on by actually doing stuff seeing a gay naked does nothing for me it has to be physical stuff
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Original post by SillyMilly
Nomal,seeing a guy naked doesnt turn me on its the little things about him like his voice thats a big turn on for me, words and stuff like that or there cheeky smile. Or things i find physically attractive like my boyfriend has tattoos so i like seeing those but I to only get really truned on by actually doing stuff seeing a gay naked does nothing for me it has to be physical stuff


thanks thats helped to reassure me!!

So i think im normal! I get wet doing stuff with guys so i must be normal lol and i always look at them when im out an think ''wow hes hot' etc
Original post by Anonymous
this is what worries me. I do find males sexy- like really muscly hot buff guys naked would be sexy, but then normal guys dont really turn me on. I dont mean this in a shallow way! I still think theyre hot and stuff i just dont get turned on down there.

And then i worry i will never find someone to be happy with :rolleyes:


Better find a hot buff guy :tongue:
Original post by laura130490
Seeing a guy naked doesn't do much for me either, I mean it doesn't get me wet or anything. I like looking at naked men, but it doesn't really turn me on that much, it's just visually pleasing. I've never had a guy **** on cam for me, but I've had guys send me pics of their penis and that doesn't do much for me either. I'm definitely attracted to guys though, I like doing things with guys and prefer feeling a penis myself rather than looking at a pic of it. I think guys are just more visual than girls so they may find this hard to understand.

Like an example of some things which turn me on other than sex (without getting too graphic) are feeling a guy get hard through his clothes or seeing that he's got hard (I find that a massive turn on), kissing and the usual stuff, seeing that I'm pleasuring him e.g heavy breathing or moaning, touching him e.g bum, arms, running my fingers through his hair etc. That's the kind of stuff that turns me on, not looking at pictures.


To be frank, most guys are like that as well. A girl doing all the things you have listed is an absolute ****ing massive turn on for guys. Whilst the picture is just kinda, humm niceeeee.

I often look at pictures of girls at work, as a reward for a task completed :biggrin:. It does not get me crazy horny of anything like that, otherwise I certainly would not do it at work lol.

Or a picture of a pussy is not going to drive me crazy, it will just get me a little turned on. Just like a picture of a penis does for a gal. I could definitely get a hard on from a really hot story, whilst a picture of a pussy would probably not do it, just like a girl would probably get turned on more by a hot story than a picture of a penis.

I think girls get the impression that guys are driven mad by pictures because guys are much more open about it. Whilst girls have been taught to supress it and not flaunt that they enjoy looking at the other sex. I mean, when was the last time you heard girls joking about watching some porn compared to guys atleast who will make regular jokes about it?

Infact I am pretty sure when ultrasound scans and the like have been done, guys and gals have almost indentical responses to sexy pictures of the opposite sex. I heard that from my mum lol.

Girls and guys have the same brains basically.

Infact it is ****ing obvious guys are not driven mental by a girls body, if they were, beaches would be full of guys with hard ons looking at girls wearing almost nothing. And yet it never happens (and no, guys really cannot control hard ons). Guys being "visual" and girls being "something else" is a myth.

Suppose there was a really hot girl on the beach and I was watching her. I would not be really horny, I would just enjoying her in a fairly cool state. Suppose that girl then came over, for whatever reason, and just started to caress my hips or breathing deeply into my ear. That would drive me ****ing insane. Just thinking about it starts to heat me up.

Just replace the hot girl with a hot guy in the story and make me a girl. The girls feelings will be just the same.
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Original post by SillyMilly
Nomal,seeing a guy naked doesnt turn me on its the little things about him like his voice thats a big turn on for me, words and stuff like that or there cheeky smile. Or things i find physically attractive like my boyfriend has tattoos so i like seeing those but I to only get really truned on by actually doing stuff seeing a gay naked does nothing for me it has to be physical stuff


just wondered when you say words what kind of words? I think im the same
Original post by Classical Liberal
To be frank, most guys are like that as well. A girl doing all the things you have listed is an absolute ****ing massive turn on for guys. Whilst the picture is just kinda, humm niceeeee.

I often look at pictures of girls at work, as a reward for a task completed :biggrin:. It does not get me crazy horny of anything like that, otherwise I certainly would not do it at work lol.

Or a picture of a pussy is not going to drive me crazy, it will just get me a little turned on. Just like a picture of a penis does for a gal. I could definitely get a hard on from a really hot story, whilst a picture of a pussy would probably not do it, just like a girl would probably get turned on more by a hot story than a picture of a penis.

I think girls get the impression that guys are driven mad by pictures because guys are much more open about it. Whilst girls have been taught to supress it and not flaunt that they enjoy looking at the other sex. I mean, when was the last time you heard girls joking about watching some porn compared to guys atleast who will make regular jokes about it?

Infact I am pretty sure when ultrasound scans and the like have been done, guys and gals have almost indentical responses to sexy pictures of the opposite sex. I heard that from my mum lol.

Girls and guys have the same brains basically.

Infact it is ****ing obvious guys are not driven mental by a girls body, if they were, beaches would be full of guys with hard ons looking at girls wearing almost nothing. And yet it never happens (and no, guys really cannot control hard ons). Guys being "visual" and girls being "something else" is a myth.

Suppose there was a really hot girl on the beach and I was watching her. I would not be really horny, I would just enjoying her in a fairly cool state. Suppose that girl then came over, for whatever reason, and just started to caress my hips or breathing deeply into my ear. That would drive me ****ing insane. Just thinking about it starts to heat me up.

Just replace the hot girl with a hot guy in the story and make me a girl. The girls feelings will be just the same.


Maybe I have guys wrong then! Because what you've posted sounds exactly like how I feel. I like looking at good looking guys on the beach and what not, but it's not a huge turn on. They would have to be doing something or saying something to me to turn me on. I think I just presumed guys were more visual because all the one's I've known are obsessed with sending me pictures of their dicks and asking for pics of me, and I find that rather boring. I don't mind a bit of a dirty talk though, but I have to be into the guy otherwise that's just boring as well.
Original post by almosttrue
just wondered when you say words what kind of words? I think im the same

Like its hard to explain I would get more turned on by a guy who treats me right speaks nicely to me calls me pet names it sounds wierd but that draws me to a closer to a man thus turning me on! and in terms of sex talkingggg always does good things!

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