Losing faith in today's women

I live in America. Maybe it's just America, but I am seriously quickly losing faith in women these days.

I've had married women flirt with me at parties. I've had married women wanting to have sex with me at parties. Some of these women have kids.

What the hell - why just why do these women exist?

Reply 1

SmileAway

The same reason cheating men exist :smile:

Its the same for both genders there's always those cheating on their partners; for one reason or another. Although, cheating is never justifiable in my eyes.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by SmileAway

The same reason cheating men exist :smile:

Its the same for both genders there's always those cheating on their partners; for one reason or another. Although, cheating is never justifiable in my eyes.

Don't they have even the slightest morals of what they are doing

Reply 3

SmileAway

Original post by Anonymous

Don't they have even the slightest morals of what they are doing

Well, think about people who kill others or rape others. I am not saying cheating is as bad as this; just that a lot of people have a skewed sense of morals. Moreover, these people who cheat usually aren't getting enough attention at home, so will do anything to get it from else where. It truly disgusts me.

Reply 4

Lucia.

I think people get like that when they don't get into relationships for the right reasons. I know there are people out there who aren't like that.

Cheating never happens from a position of strength. It is always a sign of weakness.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by SmileAway

It'd still be better to talk to their partner about it.

Original post by Lucia.

It's just horrible.

Reply 6

pinkangelgirl

Because men have treated us so bad and hurt us so many times that eventually we give up on trying to make things work and play them at their own game.

I didnt mean this literally, It was an argument to the OP for tarring all women with the same brush.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by pinkangelgirl

Because men have treated us so bad and hurt us so many times that eventually we give up on trying to make things work and play them at their own game.

How is stooping to the same level as them do any good?

I mean, what good does it do to hurt an innocent man and child?

Reply 8

SmileAway

Original post by pinkangelgirl

Because men have treated us so bad and hurt us so many times that eventually we give up on trying to make things work and play them at their own game.

Well, a bit of a biased conclusion, blaming the reason on men; cheating is never the answer for either sex.

Reply 9

Classical Liberal

Original post by pinkangelgirl

Because men have treated us so bad and hurt us so many times that eventually we give up on trying to make things work and play them at their own game.

You are a toss pot.

Reply 10

pinkangelgirl

Original post by Classical Liberal

You are a toss pot.

well i didnt mean it like how it came out, i was just trying to prove a point that hes complaining about women, and men and women shouldnt be tarred with the same brush.

I didnt mean it literally.

Reply 11

Classical Liberal

Original post by pinkangelgirl

well i didnt mean it like how it came out, i was just trying to prove a point that hes complaining about women, and men and women shouldnt be tarred with the same brush.

I didnt mean it literally.

Don't complain about women or men. Complain about people. Complain about individuals.

Women and Men are the same in almost all regards when it comes down to who we are at the core. You don't understand Men or Women until you realize they are the same.

Reply 12

pinkangelgirl

Original post by Classical Liberal

yes i agree with that. thats what i was trying to point out, i just went the wrong way doing it :tongue:

Reply 13

username917703

Original post by Classical Liberal

Women and Men are the same in almost all regards when it comes down to who we are at the core. You don't understand Men or Women until you realize they are the same.

No they are not.

Reply 14

laprenti

There has been no significant increase in cheating, nor is there more cheating in the west than in the east. It's a biological thing, and it's been this way all along.

It's just that in certain societies, it's more hidden.

Reply 15

Classical Liberal

Original post by Wilfred Little

No they are not.

Literally have the same brains, it is a myth that men and women have fundamentally different brains. The differences between men and women are just superficial and socialised. Women are taught to wear make up and look nice, guys are taught that doing that is pathetic. Deep down, at the core, men and women are very very very similar.

Women are just as filthy as men. And Men are just as sensitive and insecure as women.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 16

hali0112

Original post by Anonymous

I think it's a bit shallow to just judge a person or for that matter a person's relationship at face value. some women are naturally flirty and enjoy attention. their husbands may be okay with that. other women may just need a night where they can have a bit of innocent light fun to keep them going. marriages and especially raising children can be difficult and stressful so what's the harm in a bit of flirting? as long as these women don't take it further what's the problem? I am in a relationship and I do not flirt with other men when I am with someone but different people and different couples have different boundaries.