LGBT+Soc - for more serious discussion

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Right-o, inspired by that thread in D&D: If there was a way to become straight by altering your hormones, would you take that choice? Similar to the "straight pill" idea.

Being a lesbian is what makes me who I am as a person. So if I was to take this pill, then I wouldn't be the same person. I'd be completely different and I'm sure my family love me the way I am now.

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stawes

Anyone wanna hang out some time,

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Anonymous #22

Original post by Fleffzilla

... So as before, then. Serious matters in here, absolutely no spamming :p:

Chat thread's moved to here. I've edited the link in SWuh's quote too though so no real need to worry.
Questionnaire and picture thread are still the same :smile:

Oooooh, list of honorary members [who support LGBTers], mainly to avoid confusion, also because it's easier than listing everyone [please tell me if I've missed anyone]:

icantthinkofacoolusername
fanofkdc [sort of - applied but had too many socs already]

Please tell me when you apply to join if you're an honorary so I can add you to this list! Cheers :biggrin:

Could someone give me advice?

I... don't want to be this. I don't want to just give in and "accept myself". I don't want to be bisexual and trans...

I don't want to get banned for saying my problems, but I like men... s3xually... and I love looking at myself in the mirror and imagining myself as the woman I am... but at the same time I hate this. I do not want to be this. I want to be normal, and a good person.

I recently started m@sturbathing and it's mostly gay sex... and imagining myself as the woman every time. That I started doing this is disgusting (I'm 22 but only started a couple of weeks ago).

I just hate it all and am disgusted by myself. I don't want to be like this and wish I was fine. I don't know what to do or who to go to for advice... I just hate it

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AngryJellyfish

Chat Forum Helper, Entertainment Forum Helper

Can't offer any more advice than I have by PM, but *bump*

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choleCcarknif3r

Original post by Anonymous

Hey there

I imagine you're going through a really tough time with this. I'm bisexual, and when I was suffering at my worst with depression I did feel similarly to you. I just wanted to be straight and to not have this extra thing about me to have to deal with.

The thing you have to remember is that you are still the same person as you were before you starting having or recognising these feelings. You are still normal, and you are still a good person.

Another thing I want you to remember is that straight people can enjoy gay pornography without actually being gay. I'm not sure if that's what has sparked up the feeling that you may be attracted to men, but I just wanted to put that out there. Anyway, it's not disgusting. I know it's not what you want to enjoy, but try and remember it's still all natural and you most certainly aren't alone.

Maybe you'd feel better talking to a doctor. Not to try and cure you, not to try and transition you into anything, but just to talk to. They may be able to refer you to a counsellor that can help you work through these feelings and understand yourself a bit better. I imagine you're feeling a bit conflicted, and it's not an easy thing to deal with, so having someone to even just rant at and talk things over with may be really beneficial.

Can I ask what it is that makes you so against the idea of being bisexual and trans? No judging here, I just think it might help me to understand a bit better :hugs:

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maxpig16

haha my name jeff