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So Apparently according to the ladies here, I'm metaphorically screwed.
Reply 81
I personally never had a sex partner with a huge penis. I think huge penises are rare in nature. I think many women cannot speak about it and should not give their opinion as long as they never tried it.

Furthermore, it is difficult to have an opinion based on pictures. We would need to see it in real and handle it.
It would be a welcome change for me.
Some facts;

Less than 1% of men are 8 inches +
The average woman overestimates penis size by 1-2 inches
If you can fit a regular condom over it without it being painful for the guy, it's not huge
The vast majority of girls bottom out by about 7 inches, that's stretched to the max

Most of this thread is bull
Reply 84
When I think of the word huge I think abnormally large, freakish - but maybe that's just me. I think it's easy to overestimate size as a factor, it certainly is one, but not the most important. The vast majority of guys range between 5-7 inches in length and 4.5-5.0 in girth. So finding a guy very much away from these numbers is rare on either scale - it becomes more of a fantasy than a reality.

Original post by Schroedinger's Pandora
It would be a welcome change for me.


:mmm:
Reply 85
I wouldn't want someone with a giant penis as it'd be more pain than pleasure. Average size is good enough!
Some pretty hilarious stuff in this thread. So many men who clearly have no idea how to please a woman.
Reply 87
LOL not huge but just a bit above average.

I slept with a guy once and he was HUGE not even exaggerating, when I saw it I was like OMG :O it was at least 8 inches. anyway the sex was good, painful especially next day.
tbh im not a fan of the 'big' penis :colondollar: i likes about average length and girth...... my bf is a nice size, but tbh it's not the size it how you use it!

but to me penis size doesn't really matter it's tongue and finger technique that makes a difference :colondollar:

i think i always post too much on these threads :colondollar: x
Original post by hollywoodbudgie
It's an insecurity that's been exaggerated too much by the porn industry. :nah:

Unless a woman craves very painful sex, then it won't actually make a difference because when the average woman is aroused, the vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm, (though it can lengthen by almost 200% if 'forced to'), so unless the length is considerably less than 10cm during erect, then length will make no difference whatsoever.

EDIT: Why is this being negged? :lolwut:


Sounds like a challenge
Original post by shy-girl666
tbh im not a fan of the 'big' penis :colondollar: i likes about average length and girth...... my bf is a nice size, but tbh it's not the size it how you use it!

but to me penis size doesn't really matter it's tongue and finger technique that makes a difference :colondollar:

i think i always post too much on these threads :colondollar: x


What length and girth is a 'nice size' for you?
Original post by bloomblaze
What length and girth is a 'nice size' for you?


ermmmm i guess 5 or 6 inches in length and just so i can get my hand around for girth..... not somehting i can easily describe online lol x
Reply 92
Do half the women talk from experience or just anticipation? I wonder because almost everyone is like "I will never have sex with someone bigger than 6 1/2 inchs!!!"
Original post by Foo.mp3


Some good advice for 'blokes', some not so good


I'm not quite sure what you mean by this...if you aren't willing to talk to your partner a.d listen to what they want then that's selfish and naive...unless you are a mind reader that is.
Reply 94
i dont think their that bothered, unless its their thing but alot aint fussed
Reply 95
i once was seeing a guy, who had a massive penis. and i mean massive. i was bit intrigued by it, but a bit scared. needless to say when we were at it, i had to stop cos i just couldnt carry on, it was too painful. i was more focused on the adjustment and uncomfortable pain of it, than actually enjoying the sex. it really put me off. and ever since i had no desire to be with a guy with a massive penis. my current boyfriend is average so im grateful for that. tiny isnt great either. so just an average size should suffice for the ladies.

although i think the actual question is girth dick vs. pencil dick?

i personally think the larger the girth the better the feeling.. :redface:
Original post by Foo.mp3
Perhaps I was being unduly facetious/tactically minded.. but, being something of a retrosexual myself, and seeing the way weaker minded/'metrosexual' types often get treated by (relatively strong willed) women in the post-feminist age, I do not consider it particularly sound to encourage young men to bend over backwards to investigate/satisfy the wants and needs of a (female) partner too early on (although I conceed that ultimately, once ensconced in a loving relationship communication in all matters is key) :smile:

As for being a mind reader, I personally am still learning plenty about how to please (different) women even at my age but, yes, lessons that come intuitively/through experience, rather than through forensic description/instruction, sit better. Apart from the issue over taking love making/pleasure seeking from a spontaneous act and turning it frankly into something of a mission, it can (rightly or wrongly) be interpreted as emasculating the male from either partners' POV, and particularly early on in a relationship

Of course when raised to the conscious level and debated in this way such gender role linkages as the female as the submissive love giver, and the male as the dominant/selfish receiver predominantly concerned with the drive to inseminate, may seem ridiculous/antiquated, but

the fact is they do influence relations/self perception (mostly through the subconscious) and thus determine related intra/inter-personal psychological and relational outcomes :holmes:


It's odd that you think that a woman wanting to gain pleasure from sex, by having the man do what she likes is in any way damaging the man's masculinity. The fact is that its harder for women to gain pleasure through it than it is for men, and I don't see why men shouldnt put in some effort - which need not involve bending over in any direction - to find out how to make things more enjoyable for a woman. It's in your interest from a more selfish point of view because if you can please a woman she will probably appreciate t, because not all men can or even try to, and so she will likely put more effort into pleasing you back.

Ultimately sex involves two people, I agree you will likely put less effort into sex with someone you aren't in a remationship with, however there is no reason why you still shouldn't try to make it enjoyable for the woman, especially if you expect to get pleasure out of it yourself.
Its all about foreplay really, I am lucky to have massive hands, with 3" long fingers, I havent come across a gspot I cannot find and get to yet! And thats what really counts; the gspot and the clit.

Penis wise, I am the average 6/6.5, but rather alot of girth. Never had any complaints, only requests for 2nds.

However some of my female friends say they need around 10 inches and only like it when they can feel it hitting the back of their cervix? They actually like the pain :eek:
My ex boyfriend was VERY girthsome and too long for it to be at all comfortable - it was painful and the pain of penetration was a massive turn off.

My current boyfriend however is of an average size and satisfies perfectly well.

To be honest, I find really big penises intimidating and painful. It's all about the motion of the ocean ;D
Original post by thesmileyone69
Its all about foreplay really, I am lucky to have massive hands, with 3" long fingers, I havent come across a gspot I cannot find and get to yet! And thats what really counts; the gspot and the clit.

Penis wise, I am the average 6/6.5, but rather alot of girth. Never had any complaints, only requests for 2nds.

However some of my female friends say they need around 10 inches and only like it when they can feel it hitting the back of their cervix? They actually like the pain :eek:


Lolwat. Your friends are ****ing morons. They wouldn't like it hitting the cervix, at all. Find me a guy that likes being repeatedly kicked in the balls, and I'll find you a girl that likes her cervix poked. Ontop of that, 10 inches are 1 in 10 million occurances. Ron Jeremy, the god of porn, made over 2000 videos, wasn't 10 inches.

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