Why do girls hate me?

So im a girl and girls have an issue with me
I spent a lot of time with boys, e.g. living with mostly boys next year, when i go out its with boys (e.g. clubs/pubs/town/supermarket) 90% of the time im just with boys and this is because/maybe why girls hate me?

Im really laid back, hate bitching, easy going and sociable but for some reason girls just want to punch me..

what am i doing wrong here? :frown:

P.S. i work at hollister
girls who hate me like to mention that.
but in all seriousness Im not stuck up in the slighest and if i could find a better job id take it..

(edited 11 years ago)

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Reply 1

bishbash72

Samantha Brick, is that you??

Reply 2

boba

well your username is "girl problems"..
maybe you give off the impression you don't like other girls

Reply 3

Girlproblems

Original post by Callum828

Samantha Brick, is that you??

who?

Original post by boba

well your username is "girl problems"..
maybe you give off the impression you don't like other girls

thats just my username... not my real name

Reply 4

.Heather.

Maybe you're mixing with the wrong kind of girl?

Back when I flat-shared, I lived with all guys, and most of my friends are guys mainly because I studied and now work in a male dominated environment.

I still get on well with most girls though - apart from the obviously bitchy types, but not many people get on with them anyway. And like high school girls, but that was a long time ago! How old are you?

Reply 5

pshewitt1

quite a few of girls are like this... just get used to it, us guys are so much more fun anyway :biggrin:

Reply 6

Miracle Day

Girls tend to disslike girls who hang around primarily with boys.. it's just something I've noticed from my observations.

Reply 7

Girlproblems

Original post by .Heather.

19, 20 in september

Reply 8

Girlproblems

Original post by Miracle Day

Girls tend to disslike girls who hang around primarily with boys.. it's just something I've noticed from my observations.

but why is that an issue :frown:

Reply 9

kikukaede

Might be because you hang around with boys a lot ('waaah why is that bitch talking to that guy i like waah') or because you seem to think you are one of those not-like-other-girls or one-of-the-guys which is a pretty irritating first impression of someone. My advice would be to make more an effort around other girls with whom you share interests and don't talk to them already having made the assumption they're going to hate you.

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Reply 10

nohomo

I heard that Hollister only hires pretty girls, so they might be jealous because you're prettier than them. If you're not amazingly friendly to people and you're better than them, they can start to resent you.

Reply 11

boba

Original post by Girlproblems

who?

thats just my username... not my real name

well yes I know its not your real name, but the fact that you chose it to be your user name could possibly indicate that you might have such an attitude.

its the only answer I could think of based on the minimal information.

Reply 12

Girlproblems

Original post by boba

nah its based from a twitter page with a word in front of it.
what more info would you like?

Reply 13

Girlproblems

Original post by nohomo

if anything im over friendly :frown:

and wouldnt say im better than anyone!

Reply 14

boba

Original post by Girlproblems

nah its based from a twitter page with a word in front of it.
what more info would you like?

I'm not sure. How do you act towards girls? What makes you think they dislike you (maybe they don't really)

oh I just though aswell, maybe girls are less likely to come up to you and talk to you in the first place if your always with only boys because they find the big group of boys intimidating?

Reply 15

magap

'Ps i work at hollister'? Maybe that's why. not because you're probably pretty, maybe because you're pretty and you act like you know it.

Reply 16

Girlproblems

Original post by kikukaede

I make such an effort!
like a lot, they just end up hating me e.g. because i 'hang out with the boys' and when i go out i 'dont give the girls enough attention' (by that i mean i go out with my best boy and girl mates and idk maybe ill give a boy a hug)