DO women expect to be chatted up in public places

I reckon most women's responses would be:

Hot guy -> delighted
Average guy -> flattered
Unattractive guy -> creeped out.

Obviously this is a bit shallow, but chatting someone up on sight alone is also a bit shallow, and besides, I'm pretty sure it would be the same sort of scenario if the genders were reversed.

EDIT: Of course it should be noted that different women will have different ideas of what "hot", "average" and "unattractive" mean.

In terms of whether they expect to be chatted up, I think generally the answer is no. Especially in the gym. My initial thought was horror at the idea of someone talking to me when I'm all red and sweaty, but then I really thought about it, and I still think my first analysis was correct. Although a woman who is feeling unattractive is probably less likely to realise she's being chatted up.

I would. Invasion of my personal space.

Ha! not really, but im crap with gym small talk anyway. "so err, you do pilates an stuff do you ..?" But im george clooney from oceans 11when ive had a few drinks in me, so bars are my natural habitat

And if she was attractive, it wouldn't be?

And if she was attractive, it wouldn't be?

I reckon most women's responses would be:

Hot guy -> delighted
Average guy -> flattered
Unattractive guy -> creeped out.

Obviously this is a bit shallow, but chatting someone up on sight alone is also a bit shallow, and besides, I'm pretty sure it would be the same sort of scenario if the genders were reversed.

EDIT: Of course it should be noted that different women will have different ideas of what "hot", "average" and "unattractive" mean.

In terms of whether they expect to be chatted up, I think generally the answer is no. Especially in the gym. My initial thought was horror at the idea of someone talking to me when I'm all red and sweaty, but then I really thought about it, and I still think my first analysis was correct. Although a woman who is feeling unattractive is probably less likely to realise she's being chatted up.

I reckon most women's responses would be:

Hot guy -> delighted
Average guy -> flattered
Unattractive guy -> creeped out.

Obviously this is a bit shallow, but chatting someone up on sight alone is also a bit shallow, and besides, I'm pretty sure it would be the same sort of scenario if the genders were reversed.

EDIT: Of course it should be noted that different women will have different ideas of what "hot", "average" and "unattractive" mean.

In terms of whether they expect to be chatted up, I think generally the answer is no. Especially in the gym. My initial thought was horror at the idea of someone talking to me when I'm all red and sweaty, but then I really thought about it, and I still think my first analysis was correct. Although a woman who is feeling unattractive is probably less likely to realise she's being chatted up.

An ex convict?

To be honest, I don't really mind it - kind of a compliment to be honest. The only time its ever creepy is when a car slows down to go beside you or this one time when I was cornered in Poundland of all places, lol!

Regardless of her attractiveness - if I am busy or occupied with something it would be an invasion of my public space.

Supposing I was running to catch the bus/tram/tube and some woman starts feeling me or making flirtatious gestures it would just be annoying.

A lot of these comments do prove that men mostly care about looks.

I've never been chatted up so I can't really discuss how it feels but I certainly wouldn't expect anything- I'm usually focused on whatever I'm doing when I'm out and assume others are too.

I have noticed the unfair double standards when it comes to making advances- that anyone unnattractive or average looking is assumed to be creepy and pervy whereas often they are nicer and more genuine than their aesthetically pleasing counterparts.

This rings rape as hell! You better ignore them and stay the hell away of them when they do that.

But in Kuwait, Norway, Iceland and Yemen it will not be.

Norway and Iceland? Why wouldn't checking up women be acceptable in Scandinavia?

Don't think any guy would be creeped out just because a girl's unattractive. Men are very different to women when it comes to things like this.

Speak for yourself captain desperate. If a butters girl approaches me ima avoid.

Speak for yourself captain desperate. If a butters girl approaches me ima avoid.

I think you're over exaggeration, a persons image reflects who they are as well. Besides the point of talking is to get to know them. Are Men suppose to wear blindfolds every time they meet a women?

Wouldn't this apply in any situation?

Don't think any guy would be creeped out just because a girl's unattractive. Men are very different to women when it comes to things like this.

*in the gym* Hi, there sweetie!

I only repped you're comment because of the avatar, you could say some of the sickest most degenerate stuff and I would still pos rep you because of the hamster ahaa.

Nailed it.

..something to tell the grandkids

There you have it guys.. neither day to day situations, nor in places which are ostensibly about/synonymous with meeting people but the few mins or so before a girl passes from one domain into another.. and people say women are hard to please

Comments like this are why most self proclaimed feminists are safe from ever being approached by a guy with any sense of discernment

Projecting your voice/body language are important aspects of attraction.. do you really want some n00b coming up to you and mumbling in your ear? ..or do you mean like shouting/making a scene?