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The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' Thread

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Make it happen op!
Original post by tehFrance
This works for me every time: "Bonjour, se coucher avec moi? :sexface:" they laugh and then I switch to broken English and introduce myself, get their name and then number... takes around 3-5 minutes.

If you go to Ukraine or Russia, it is even easier to get a number... ask for a light, introduce yourself and ask for their number or have a packet of cigarettes (60p) on display and have the girls flock to you... total time? 1 minute (normally less time). There is no beating around the bush in the FSU :h:


this shiz only works if you've got looks and effortless sex appeal.
Original post by tehFrance
This works for me every time: "Bonjour, se coucher avec moi? :sexface:" they laugh and then I switch to broken English and introduce myself, get their name and then number... takes around 3-5 minutes.

If you go to Ukraine or Russia, it is even easier to get a number... ask for a light, introduce yourself and ask for their number or have a packet of cigarettes (60p) on display and have the girls flock to you... total time? 1 minute (normally less time). There is no beating around the bush in the FSU :h:


Anything works in East Europe/Russia. Their male/female ratio is so off, women go for anything. If you're employed, you're treated like a king.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnGnl-UElVA

Anything this man does.

Jokingly did some of these on a night out. I am barely toned so it was hilarious.
Reply 344
One which I think might work is if you are shortsighted( or just fake that you are if you aren't) ask the girl what something on a poster or something says. Although you would have to explain why you are asked or it may just be really weird and you should ask something which is really long, just a short thing like "can you see what the time of the next train to _____ is"
As I said, this MIGHT work. You never know, one day I may pluck up the courage to try my theory out, but I doubt it :frown:


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Original post by benten17
One which I think might work is if you are shortsighted( or just fake that you are if you aren't) ask the girl what something on a poster or something says. Although you would have to explain why you are asked or it may just be really weird and you should ask something which is really long, just a short thing like "can you see what the time of the next train to _____ is"
As I said, this MIGHT work. You never know, one day I may pluck up the courage to try my theory out, but I doubt it :frown:


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Why not just simplify that lame chat up technique by asking her for the time?


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Reply 346
If you're talking to any stranger, then you can pick a mundane opener, just anything to get talking. Even if it's just asking what the time is, then that's cool 'cause it's a way to start a conversation. It can flow from there. :smile:
Reply 347
Just ask the time, then if the conversation does not flow, well then s/he is not the one :wink:

Or you could sing boyzone-words, that would be my method :P
Original post by JaiiStarh
If this 12 year old can do it.......anyone can!:cool:

My advice is to grab a pen and write down some tips!:tongue:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPpAYu3ZIFQ


Dude got swagger!
Original post by Raving_Hippy
Here is how you approach random girls on the street. It's from a show called the 'Tru player show'. Basically, the object of the show is for a guy to approach girls in the street and see how many phone numbers he can get in the space of an hour. The one who gets the most numbers wins. Here are several videos from the show....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klQEqSIqB_E

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyD6E2prijI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPpAYu3ZIFQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjCYPTqZWLw&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oybWXOY66IQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocTC8ngOgfc


Haha that was funny, almost painful to watch but those guys at least got the balls to approach which is fair play to them.
Original post by LadyLondoner
Haaaa I'd love that!

Can you tell me how to get to london :smile:
Original post by Thomas2
I like the directions idea! I so wish I'd thought of that a few weeks ago....

Other (lame) suggestions:
- Don't wear a wrist watch so you can ask her the time.
- Carry a lighter (even if you don't smoke) for when a pretty girl asks you for a light. Then you can say: "Actually, I don't really smoke - I just carry a lighter for when a pretty girl like you comes up to me and asks me for a light".

- Have some contact cards ready for if you're successful in getting chatting...

I just drew a smiley face with some polish writing (I thought she was polish) and then an english part around it saying have a nice day. I then put my FB email on there and she added me, but nothing happened grrr.

Question: Would it be wrong to make templates of this ready to hand out when you see a nice girl?

Really mean, but this guy's got the confidence, and a few girls actually looked interested!
Here is a pretty good approach on a hot blonde in the street....he gets the number...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzSKh2LVQnU&feature=relmfu
Reply 354
To anyone wondering, this is how to do it in London on a semi-famous person:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kSsYwd5REEI
*Subrcirbes*
This Thread is hilarious :smile:
Just read through all 19 pages. I have decided this is the greatest thread in the world.
It really is hard in London. When I went abroad the girls seemed really friendly, willing to chat, and wouldn't immediately run away as I approached them Lol
I've been approached by random girls in the street lol. It's hard in london though that's true, although I've never tried anyway.
Reply 359
I've got to say the simplest way I can think of to start talking to a girl is to ask for a light.

Original post by Best Superlative
You really have to be something special for a random person to take you seriously/not be frightened by you when you approach them in public. At least, that's how it is here in London.

I usually just pretend to start crying in front of them. At least that way they might touch me out of pity before they disappear forever.
Repped for the Allahu Snackbar in your sig. If you ever do this, I'll invest :cool:

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