It takes me too long to cum! (male)

It takes me too long to ejaculate during sex!

Not only during sex. It takes me a long time to cum when masturbating and I can only cum when my body is in a "special position"... I CANNOT use this special position during sex as it is too weird and would definitely kill the mood. Also, this position is not for two people, it only makes sense for masturbatory purposes. (I hope you can understand this)

I saw a documentary where some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm. And one woman could only orgasm when her legs were crossed in a special way close to her body. I have a similar thing, but I'm a guy. I cannot cum if my legs are straight either... It is definitely odd.

During sex:
It takes me a *minimum* of 50 mins to cum. My average is around 1 hour 30 mins.

The longest it has taken is 4 hours.... yes 4 hours of pure sex. The girl said it was good, but it was not much fun for me, tbh. My cock was even damaged after that. No joke. I had some chafes. Not permanent, but it hurt at the time.

Some times I cannot cum at all during sex and I just tell the girl it isn't going to happen.

I cannot cum from a blowjob or handjob, not even close. So I had to decline them all of my life.

I cannot cum from doggy style or the woman on top either.
I can ONLY cum from *hard* missionary position sex....

Oh and perhaps the worst thing. I cannot cum at all if I wear a condom

Because of this I stopped having sex with girls. It is too embarrassing and anxiety provoking, as I am afraid if I cannot cum during sex; the girl may think it is her fault or something. I have only had sex with one girl. My sex drive is very high though.

I will start university this September and I think I would want to have sex with a girl. I have not had sex for 5 years now and I'm even masturbating twice per day, everyday of the week.

I don't know what to do. It is quite bad.

Does anyone have any serious advice?

It takes me too long to ejaculate during sex!

Not only during sex. It takes me a long time to cum when masturbating and I can only cum when my body is in a "special position"... I CANNOT use this special position during sex as it is too weird and would definitely kill the mood. Also, this position is not for two people, it only makes sense for masturbatory purposes. (I hope you can understand this)

I saw a documentary where some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm. And one woman could only orgasm when her legs were crossed in a special way close to her body. I have a similar thing, but I'm a guy. I cannot cum if my legs are straight either... It is definitely odd.

During sex:
It takes me a *minimum* of 50 mins to cum. My average is around 1 hour 30 mins.

The longest it has taken is 4 hours.... yes 4 hours of pure sex. The girl said it was good, but it was not much fun for me, tbh. My cock was even damaged after that. No joke. I had some chafes. Not permanent, but it hurt at the time.

Some times I cannot cum at all during sex and I just tell the girl it isn't going to happen.

I cannot cum from a blowjob or handjob, not even close. So I had to decline them all of my life.

I cannot cum from doggy style or the woman on top either.
I can ONLY cum from *hard* missionary position sex....

Oh and perhaps the worst thing. I cannot cum at all if I wear a condom

Because of this I stopped having sex with girls. It is too embarrassing and anxiety provoking, as I am afraid if I cannot cum during sex; the girl may think it is her fault or something. I have only had sex with one girl. My sex drive is very high though.

I will start university this September and I think I would want to have sex with a girl. I have not had sex for 5 years now and I'm even masturbating twice per day, everyday of the week.

I don't know what to do. It is quite bad.

Does anyone have any serious advice?

Umm....

It takes me too long to ejaculate during sex!

Not only during sex. It takes me a long time to cum when masturbating and I can only cum when my body is in a "special position"... I CANNOT use this special position during sex as it is too weird and would definitely kill the mood. Also, this position is not for two people, it only makes sense for masturbatory purposes. (I hope you can understand this)

I saw a documentary where some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm. And one woman could only orgasm when her legs were crossed in a special way close to her body. I have a similar thing, but I'm a guy. I cannot cum if my legs are straight either... It is definitely odd.

During sex:
It takes me a *minimum* of 50 mins to cum. My average is around 1 hour 30 mins.

The longest it has taken is 4 hours.... yes 4 hours of pure sex. The girl said it was good, but it was not much fun for me, tbh. My cock was even damaged after that. No joke. I had some chafes. Not permanent, but it hurt at the time.

Some times I cannot cum at all during sex and I just tell the girl it isn't going to happen.

I cannot cum from a blowjob or handjob, not even close. So I had to decline them all of my life.

I cannot cum from doggy style or the woman on top either.
I can ONLY cum from *hard* missionary position sex....

Oh and perhaps the worst thing. I cannot cum at all if I wear a condom

Because of this I stopped having sex with girls. It is too embarrassing and anxiety provoking, as I am afraid if I cannot cum during sex; the girl may think it is her fault or something. I have only had sex with one girl. My sex drive is very high though.

I will start university this September and I think I would want to have sex with a girl. I have not had sex for 5 years now and I'm even masturbating twice per day, everyday of the week.

I don't know what to do. It is quite bad.

Does anyone have any serious advice?

It takes me too long to ejaculate during sex!

Not only during sex. It takes me a long time to cum when masturbating and I can only cum when my body is in a "special position"... I CANNOT use this special position during sex as it is too weird and would definitely kill the mood. Also, this position is not for two people, it only makes sense for masturbatory purposes. (I hope you can understand this)

I saw a documentary where some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm. And one woman could only orgasm when her legs were crossed in a special way close to her body. I have a similar thing, but I'm a guy. I cannot cum if my legs are straight either... It is definitely odd.

During sex:
It takes me a *minimum* of 50 mins to cum. My average is around 1 hour 30 mins.

The longest it has taken is 4 hours.... yes 4 hours of pure sex. The girl said it was good, but it was not much fun for me, tbh. My cock was even damaged after that. No joke. I had some chafes. Not permanent, but it hurt at the time.

Some times I cannot cum at all during sex and I just tell the girl it isn't going to happen.

I cannot cum from a blowjob or handjob, not even close. So I had to decline them all of my life.

I cannot cum from doggy style or the woman on top either.
I can ONLY cum from *hard* missionary position sex....

Oh and perhaps the worst thing. I cannot cum at all if I wear a condom

Because of this I stopped having sex with girls. It is too embarrassing and anxiety provoking, as I am afraid if I cannot cum during sex; the girl may think it is her fault or something. I have only had sex with one girl. My sex drive is very high though.

I will start university this September and I think I would want to have sex with a girl. I have not had sex for 5 years now and I'm even masturbating twice per day, everyday of the week.

I don't know what to do. It is quite bad.

Does anyone have any serious advice?

A lot of it is in the mind, I'd think. You worry too much, think you need loads of time and because of this you can't cum sooner.

Maybe you need to try kinkier sex. :P Worked for me.

Also, try not masturbating so much, you've probably desensitized yourself.

I am fine in my "special position". It is completely physical.
But maybe I am thinking too much anyway...

To Satan: It is not to do with not being turned on enough.

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So from the age on your profile you've only had sex with one girl and it was when you were 14? It's probably changed a bit since then.

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