My parents are pretty bad, but I've seen worse, to be honest. I think I'd like to settle down with a Chinese girl, but being 6' 2" doesn't really give me much hope :/
I think they're just a bit afraid of their heritage fading away and wanting it to go on. There tend to be two types of BBC's; the typical ones who can speak Canto/Mando and Hak-Ga who blend with only other Chinese people. These are the ones which the family is quite proud of. Then there are more westernised BBC's who prefer to integrate etc.