Hi Minerva,
Thanks very much for your reply, I'm definitely in need of some guidance with regards to the reference and really don't want it to let down my application.
I want to study English Literature with Creative Writing so probably the greatest step towards preparing for that is reading classic and critically acclaimed novels and working on writing fiction in my spare time. I'm taking a short course with the OU (Start Writing Fiction) as well, which starts at the end of the month, although I've already read the material that has been sent. I've also started reading about the history of English literature for a more academic overview of the subject. Although I’ve been out of education for a few years, I’ve always enjoyed learning and do feel ready to study at university.
As for the reference, I could ask my current employer and see how they react but it’s a gamble as to whether they would actually make an effort and write something helpful, whereas my old employer has no agenda and has said he would be happy to write a reference. Does the fact it was just over 3 years ago since I worked there make it an irrelevant reference? I have worked back there a couple of times since (when I’ve needed extra money and had time off from my current job) but does that really count? Would you advise taking the chance and asking my current employer because the reference would carry more weight? I can't imagine they'd have the right to fly off the handle - just might be a little awkward or they might not make much effort with the reference (or perhaps I'm being paranoid).
Also, what sort of thing should a reference from an employer for a mature student say?
Sorry about all the questions, have searched the forums on here but haven’t really found the answers I need.
Thanks!