I need a girlfriend (serious)

I am 19, a virgin, scared to talk to girls, I am sick of seeing others in relationship and not me, it gets me depressed, i like a girl who works accross my shop but because im too much of a pussy to talk to her, i probably won't get her, what do i do ?

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Reply 1

Leon Trotsky

Accept the fact that you will not get her and try to adjust to being a lifelong member of the Virgin Club.

Reply 2

Hello_Kitty

Get some confidence first, then approach some girls.

Reply 3

php14

Hello_Kitty

Get some confidence first, then approach some girls.

"get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done

Reply 4

racheer

MAN UP AND DO IT

It will be hard but you just have to do it! You can't give up now! Did Bruce give up on Matilda when presented with that huge cake? No he did not! I'd try and think of some more relevant things here but I can't so I'm going to roll with Bruce.

YOU CAN DO IT!

Reply 5

Hello_Kitty

php14

"get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done

And they're right, if you don't start believing in yourself and taking some chances, you'll miss out on many things in life.

Reply 6

Citation

php14

"get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done

What would you suggest then? There's little else you can do. Even those with **** loads of a cash who get themselves a 'trophy gal' still have that initial confidence.

Reply 7

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racheer

yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though

Reply 8

racheer

php14

yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though

Life is hard!
If you don't do it now, you'll die a virgin. :yes:

Think of all the funtimes you can have when you finally pluck up the courage.

Reply 9

sparkplug

php14

yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though

What you need is a decent wingman.

I'd volunteer my services, but there's the small matter of the Irish Sea... [assuming you're not Irish]

Reply 10

matrix15

Grow a pair or by some chloroform.

Reply 11

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racheer

Life is hard!
If you don't do it now, you'll die a virgin. :yes:

Think of all the funtimes you can have when you finally pluck up the courage.

the thng is im not even ugly, ive been told im good looking but i dont know, its just that i don't how to strike up the convo

Reply 12

racheer

php14

the thng is im not even ugly, ive been told im good looking but i dont know, its just that i don't how to strike up the convo

as said above, you need a wingman.

Reply 13

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racheer

as said above, you need a wingman.

not really... what has that got to do with anything ? wignmans are useless

Reply 14

co_co_vogue

php14

"get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done

Fake it then.

Reply 15

racheer

php14

not really... what has that got to do with anything ? wignmans are useless

They're not, the scariest part of talking to someone is starting the conversation. They will start the conversation for you so you have to talk back to her you can't just not talk, that's rude.

Get a wingman. :yes: