I'm a virgin-never made love, but when I will it will have to be the following; because the beat is so sensual and the lyrics are so obvious: http://youtu.be/GVTN5o9Kgu8
Guns n Roses are always good for nookey. Also The Coral- Dreaming of you. Joan Jett and the blackhearts- do you want to touch me there (some of the other stuff is also suitable)
Okay, but seriously isn't music a bit of a distraction. Not sure music/sex really go together. And if someone else is singing it's like there's someone else in the room with you.