yeah I went out a lot last term - not as much as others, but I went to all the freshers events etc., and went out at least once a week after freshers just because I didn't want to miss out on flatmate bonding/meeting new people, etc. This term I think I've been out twice maybe? I'm sick of doing something I don't enjoy, the day before if I know I'm out clubbing I just dread it..not worth it to be honest.
Whenever I go out in the day, it's always by myself. I try to arrange things, there was a film I really wanted to see at the cinema and my flatmate said she wanted to see it too, so we agreed on Wednesday. Tuesday comes around.. 'Oh sorry I'm out tonight so won't be able to go tomorrow (too hungover)..So I think fair enough, rearranged for the Wednesday after, she cancels again because she can't be bothered to leave the flat in the day. Obviously this is just one singular example, but it's annoying and just represents the attitudes of most people at uni I've experienced so far.
It's hard because I do wonder sometimes if I am boring..I have hobbies, but am generally a more quiet person. I love socialising - but am more than happy to go to the cinema, have a nice meal, even just go and sit outside in the park on a nice day. I enjoy things like reading, music, art, museums .. which it seems rare for other students to like. Maybe it's just me.
The funny thing is, when I'm at home, I would go clubbing/to town as often as I could, because the atmosphere was different, and I live in quite a big city so it's not just that I'm missing a smaller town scene or anything. Going out at home was about seeing everyone outside of college, catching up with people, having a few drinks at bars, and then going to a club after, and I always had a good time. At uni it's going to a massive club for 4 hours straight and people seem to go just to get with people. When I've been clubbing at uni the people I go with pretty much get very self-orientated and ignore everyone else when they're there.
....rant over!