Admittedly, this is a topic of a certain greyzone.
Nonetheless, unless the mods move it it, it'll be here for a while.
Now to my topic: Blond men. Disclosure: I am blond myself.
And I've never really struggled with girls, including black girls, latin girls, Asian girls(both South and East) nor Middle Eastern girls.
Nor, of course, white girls.
Still, the basic formula you read over and over again is 'tall, dark and handsome'.
When girls talk about their physical preferences, hair color is not usually high on the list but it is nonetheless mentioned from time to time.
And whenever it is, I do notice that it's almost always a wish for darkhaired men(and oftentimes the girl will also state that they prefers brown/dark eyes, although less often. I've also noticed quite a few girls that want darkhaired men with, say, green eyes. But that's another story).
My general question is: is this true for you or if you haven't thought about it personally, what about your circle of friends?
Is it a big deal or a minor thing?
Now I am both tall, handsome and with dark blue eyes and wavy, golden blond hair. And as I said I haven't noticed anything from girl's general behaviour to warrant suspicion that my haircolor would work against me, but you never know!
So, girls, enlighten me. Is this the case, as it seems, and is it a big deal?
Still, I'd imagine in the larger scheme of things someone's hair color isn't exactly a dealbreaker, but it'd be interesting to find someone for who it is! (if they exist).