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Is it possible to suppress love?

Ok, had a row with my best mate last night. It's a long story, basically, there's always been an attraction between us, and yes, we've acted on it. But friday, I kinda spilled out that I was in love with him, and then told him I couldn't carry on the way things are, otherwise I'd just end up getting hurt. Anyway. He seemed a bit pissed off, wouldn't let the subject drop, and then I kinda told him to **** off. Anyway. He kinda told me last night he loves me, but he can "supress it" cos I'm away at uni...

Ok... is it actually possible to suppress love, or is he just messing with my head here?

Sorry, kinda need some advice on this one... :frown:

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Reply 1

Vixen

I think you can. If you are so in love with someone but cant do anything about it or cant have the person I think it is possible to blank out the feeling and keep it surpressed so it hurts less and is more bearable to live with. Its a self-preservation thing

probably.

I dunno. I feel lost on this one...

Reply 4

Vixen

shootingstar

I dunno. I feel lost on this one...

He wouldnt say that to just mess with your head would he surely? Do people really do things like that? :frown:

Reply 5

shootingstar

VixenIW

He wouldnt say that to just mess with your head would he surely? Do people really do things like that? :frown:

I dunno, I've always been a bit on the cynical side...

Reply 6

BlackHawk

yes you can surpress love. What about the phase 'If you really love someone let them go...if they return to you its meant to be.' I'm getting married soon and I only want to be with my fiance. I love him to bits and can't imagine life without him. However if I ever stand in the way of his career I will leave him for his own good, no matter how much I love him.

Reply 7

Harv616

What does he mean "surpress" love? does he mean hide it? you can hide it if thats what he means.

You can not surprsess love, when you in love with someone you always feel that way about them.

Reply 8

BlackHawk

BhArJ

What does he mean "surpress" love? does he mean hide it? you can hide it if thats what he means.

You can not surprsess love, when you in love with someone you always feel that way about them.

you can't supress it from yourself but you can for other people

Reply 9

Harv616

sublime_envy

you can't supress it from yourself but you can for other people

a.k.a hideing it :biggrin:

Reply 10

shootingstar

meh. so he's hiding it...

gah... men...

Reply 11

Harv616

shootingstar

meh. so he's hiding it...

gah... men...

so would you like him to carry a big neon sign saying:

I LOVE KIM!!

when your not even there? :rolleyes:

and yeh, guys r strange but girls are woce

*Note do everybody, i do not love kim*

Reply 12

shootingstar

BhArJ

so would you like him to carry a big neon sign saying:

I LOVE KIM!!

when your not even there? :rolleyes:

and yeh, guys r strange but girls are woce

*Note do everybody, i do not love kim*

LMAO!!!

no, I don't mean it like that...

Reply 13

pink_lucie

at least you dont have a 28yr old man after you! :frown:

Reply 14

BlackHawk

its because men aren't in touch with their emotions. Also they have to look hard in front of their mates. I have spent years studying the ways of the male species. Quite interesting, I think I almost have them sussed :cool: