lads in the changing rooms

whenever i go the gym, and go for a shower afterwards, being naked in a public(ish) place really makes me horny and aroused and i end up getting an erection. i don't want my mates to think i'm gay but it does seem rather odd when you're surrounded by other naked fellas! what can i do? is there anything really obvious? i could just not shower but i should be able to control this somehow.

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Reply 1

Sithius

lol, you must be gay then?

Reply 2

freshestkid

Maybe youre an exhibitionist. Go flashing and get it out of your system

Reply 3

AT82

You could be slightly bi, its apparantly quite normal, it dosn't mean you will want to shag a bloke, but it does mean you might get turned on by the site of them naked.

Reply 4

gbduo

Beware of the wet towel :wink:

Reply 5

MickeyG

Not meaning to sound too explicit but... maybe a 5 knuckle shuffle before going to the gym would prevent any excitement in the shower afterwards.

Cold shower ftw

Getting an erection in a shower doesn't mean you're gay. Far from it - shows your equipment's working. If you were on your own, you'd probably decide to spank the monkey, be honest! And if you do fancy a bloke, what does it matter? At school in the shower, one bloke saw I had an erection and actually grabbed hold of it. I was surprised, but didn't object too much.

Maybe the reason men get erections in front of other men is more to do with making a statement. As if they were saying "look what I've got!".

Reply 8

doublex

stargalaxy

Maybe in "North Wales" it's like that. Not here though.

Reply 9

stargalaxy

doublex

Maybe in "North Wales" it's like that. Not here though.

Well, you tell me what it is like wherever you are, then.

Reply 10

MickeyG

I must say i've never been in the situation where anyone has been erect in a shower full of men...let alone grabbing each others man candy. Each to their own i guess though.

Reply 11

Anonymous #3

At school in the shower, one bloke saw I had an erection and actually grabbed hold of it. I was surprised, but didn't object too much.

What did you do?

Reply 12

doublex

stargalaxy

Well, you tell me what it is like wherever you are, then.

You don't grab other boys boners.
Or swordfight with them in the changing rooms.

Reply 13

stargalaxy

Anonymous

What did you do?

I was speechless. I looked over at him, thinking "what the heck is he doing?", but I just couldn't get the words out. Maybe I should have just punched him, in hindsight.

doublex

You don't grab other boys boners.
Or swordfight with them in the changing rooms.

Neither would I in normal circumstances. Changing rooms do strange things to blokes, though.

Reply 14

Anonymous #4

Maybe its not the naked men but the thought of being naked in a publicish place and or the thought of other people seeing you naked that turns you on.

Reply 15

freshestkid

MickeyG

Each to their own i guess though.

yeah, but not in the shower, wouldnt be up for walking in the showers and dealing with a room full of THAT goin down :teeth:

Reply 16

so_this_is_sam

As a female I am finding this thread quite amusing :smile:

Reply 17

MickeyG

stargalaxy

I was speechless. I looked over at him, thinking "what the heck is he doing?", but I just couldn't get the words out. Maybe I should have just punched him, in hindsight. Neither would I in normal circumstances. Changing rooms do strange things to blokes, though.

Maybe you should have told him to get his hands off your knob, just a thaught... Its just a changing room, not a prison.

Reply 18

Chumbaniya

stargalaxy

I was speechless. I looked over at him, thinking "what the heck is he doing?", but I just couldn't get the words out. Maybe I should have just punched him, in hindsight.

So it's odd behaviour for a public shower, but how that warrants physical violence I don't know. Unless he was trying to do something to you with it, why should you hit him? Makes sense to just tell him in no uncertain terms that it's inapropriate.

Reply 19

freshestkid

Think it was a school shower chumb, they do that sorta stuff in some schools i hear. In my school it was very much keep your hands to yourself, eyes to yourself, and throw the weedy kid's pants in the pool.