Talk about control freak. Men are women are different when it comes to getting off. Men are in general more visual so porn is mainly tailored to them,when they have made efforts to attract women to porn it has been a fail.This is a common complaint you are making ,however what is not talked about is erotic fiction the main buyers of it are women, and it contains a lot of hardcore sex, in fact in some cases harder than what guys view on their computer screens.
I fail to see the difference, it's not like he will ever meet these girls is it?Don't tell me you haven't glanced at a cute guy either. You might also want to ask him what he likes in bed, because if you are lying there like a wet fish it's no wonder he is turning to the internet is it? You want to get your act together and stop acting like a miserable cow,because the no 1 reason why men cheat is because of girlfriends being prudes, control freaks and not doing it for him in bed. 'she just doesn't understand me' while his new piece of ass is whispering sweet nothings in his ear.