I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
They're probably from before you got together, maybe ask him about it but don't go assuming he's up to no good. I don't go through my folders at all so still have pictures of me and exes from 2+ years ago.
I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
If you right click and check the properties of the picture, you can sometimes find out when the file was saved or created. If it was before you met, then don't worry about it. If it's recent, then maybe just ask him. 'Darling, who is this topless hoe on your laptop? kthx.'
EDIT: You said you know it's someone he knows from the internet, so can't be porn. Plus it's easy to differentiate between porn and an amateur shot by a girl. Check the properties or just ask. Sounds a bit suspicious to me...
I have some semi clothed pictures of my ex still. They are just in a folder with all the pics i have of her. Remember checking a while ago for a similar thread and the last time it was opened was Febuary, 2 months before we broke up.....
If you right click and check the properties of the picture, you can sometimes find out when the file was saved or created.
This is good as a cue but bear in mind that it's not infallible. If something has been restored from a backup or whatever the date may not be accurate.
I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
This is good as a cue but bear in mind that it's not infallible. If something has been restored from a backup or whatever the date may not be accurate.
Sure, that's a good point.
OP, I'd suggest you go ahead and ask him. I don't think it's porn. And unless he's a great liar, you'll be able to tell if he's being honest when you just ask him straight up. Don't ask him in a really threatening or argumentative way though.
I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
If you were snooping there is nothing you can do, you shouldn't do that anyway. If you say something, you're going to come across as the bad guy because you went behind his back. Best thing is to wait until he mentions something, or "accidentally" find them in front of him then confront him. Ask him to delete them and explain why "makes you feel less special..." etc. I made my boyfriend delete some pictures he had and he did it so it shouldn't be a big deal.
I think he's chatting with other girls online and they have been exchanging "pics". So she could have copies of him. I'll definitely confront him about it.