stop being ****ing selfish. let the lad have a good time and make some friends, its his first ****ing day. he was not being mean, he was being blunt and honest, you should understand and respect his decision and not try to rage on him for it. he's looking after himself, he's got his interests at heart, respect that cause he's your boyfriend and you SHOULD want the best for him. now stop crying, your so overly sensitive its not funny.