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How to NOT be horny?

Please do not de anon this, its quite embarassing for me, delete if you have to.

Im a guy, 19 years of age, horny as hell, i thought it stops at about 18, it clearly didnt with me. I wake up i have a hard on, i walk around in front of my sister with a hard on down my leg, she gets annoyed and says im a horny freak. My last few girl friends said that im too 'tiring' and i always want sex, they want more from the relationship etc, and i just have alot of sexual tension, and need to resort to sex or mastabation sometimes even to tame it for some time, its like a disease. I even stoop to the level of sleeping around with strangers just to keep myself in line, i will kind of go wild if i dont get it at the right time. I am just looking for answers, are there similar people like this? Is it a disease? Is it just a teen thing? What can i do to stop these urges? , i dont really want to have a quick **** or even sleep around when im horny, it feels like crime of the century after i do it, and the guilt is too much for me etc.

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Reply 1
i have this problem. just masterbate more often and take up a sport. gym is usually good. forget that cold shower crap, thats just uncomfortable.
Reply 2
Cold showers?

EDIT: or perhaps not :rolleyes:
cold bucket of ice should do the trick.
lol sorry on a serous note- dont worry, it's pretty normal from what i gather/been told by guy friends. only thing is, just because you've 'got the urge' doesnt mean you have to act on it. I know it'll be hard not to, but you say you feel guilty afterwards, so obviously its just a momentary thing. Save it for someone you care about or at least wont feel guilty with.
Anonymous
i walk around in front of my sister with a hard on down my leg, she gets annoyed and says im a horny freak


LOL!!! :biggrin:

Troll, methinks...
Reply 5
Lots of people are the same really - maybe not to the same level though! And it won't automatically just 'go away' once you've passed your teen years... although after a couple of years or so it may calm down a little. I dunno, just think really unsexy thoughts?
Reply 6
I saw a program once where this guy was so horny all the time it was ruining his life, he was masterbating for hours on end everyday and couldn't stop.

In the end he got so frustrated he actually castrated himself.........

Funny story but wouldnt recommend it.....

Print this picture off and carry it around with you:


Everytime you 'feel the urge' grab a look at the pic and all will be fine....
Reply 7
think unsexy thoughts, think unsexy thoughts.
masturbate more often or look into a career in pornography.
Reply 8
Speedbird2007
LOL!!! :biggrin:

Troll, methinks...


No man, im just showing how its ruining my life, my relation with my family etc. I ddint add alot of other stuff as its very crude, its not a nice situation to be in.

And i really dont think mastabation is the answer, i hate the after feeling, and i think it actually makes you more horny as a result as you think a quick **** would do the trick.

Also the thing about me is, i dont know if other guys are like this, but when your in the mood, quite a few things will only be unsexy, only after the feeling you will realise, yukk what did i just do, and who with.
Reply 9
Don't most guy shave a hard on when they weake up? It's something about testosterone levels being high in the mornings. Maybe the guilt is making you think about it more and somehow making you more horny? (sorry maybe this advice isn't best coming from a girl).
JPinsker
I saw a program once where this guy was so horny all the time it was ruining his life, he was masterbating for hours on end everyday and couldn't stop.

In the end he got so frustrated he actually castrated himself.........

Funny story but wouldnt recommend it.....

Print this picture off and carry it around with you:


Everytime you 'feel the urge' grab a look at the pic and all will be fine....


she's an acquired taste :wink:
guilt is an issue that surprises me. it is your body, do not feel guilty if you are more erotically charged than other people. also, all boys have a hard on in the morning, it is natural.
Think of maggie thatcher naked.
Reply 13
white_haired_wizard
she's an acquired taste :wink:


lol do you reckon anyone has actually done the deed with her.... i just can't see it happening!
Reply 14
Why do you feel so guilty after *******? It's just your body. You get urges for a reason. Deal with them. Billions of people are doing it at any given second without being smitten down by some kind of Godly wrath.

And at least when it's over, you don't have to worry about the "omg what did I do and who with?" Just thank your hand for saving you from diseases, dirty slags, and sisterly teasing.
Reply 15
JPinsker
lol do you reckon anyone has actually done the deed with her.... i just can't see it happening!



:puke: I can see it happening it and it isnt pretty. :frown:
Reply 16
Simple Answer : do your sister.
Keep yourself around people if you want to stop masturbating.
Reply 18
Many religions condemn mastabation, hence why he might feel gulity.

I know Catholics feel strongly against it.