Society is like a playground. You get kids who have to say they will be your best friend if you give them sweets. Some will fall for it, some won't. You can't judge people from that. Sure, some worry about not get laid and go to the extent of lying to get some. It's not the way forward. Honesty and being yourself is. And then if that's just who you are then feel bad for yourself, you jerk. But if that is all you ever see when you go around is people lying to get laid (yes, guys and girls...lets not be hard on the guys because girls do it too), then you haven't really been around much or enough, and you haven't met the genuinely good people out there. Some kids will play with you whether you have sweets or not. And I don't mean that in a sexual way either. It's one of those "if you feel great about you, others will see that, too" kind of thing. So yeah, not everyone is like that, and you don't have to be like that.