Argh Boyyysss!!!!!

Have you actually told him that it's upset you? It does kinda suck but it is his birthday. Maybe he doesn't want you to see him absolutely wasted and making a fool of himself?

Why not organise a birthday thing just for the two of you instead? But yeah, talk to him. Maybe he doesn't realise how much he's upset you.

Its my boyfreinds brithday next week, and he's going out with his freinds (one couple (adam and lilly) another 2 guys (will, luke) and 1 girl Leanne) and I assumed that I would be going aswell, until today I said 'oh i don't know what to wear' and he's like wear to what? and im like you know, your birthday.

And then he says oh i thought you knew, you're not coming, and im like why?. he then goes onto say its unfair on the girl (leanne) cz she won't want to come if everyone's in thier own pairs (I know WTF??) and then im like. you don;t want me to come cz its unfair on her? and then he changes it and says, i cant be myself around you with my freinds (Ive hung out with his male freinds before) its weird, and then he goes onto say oh you would't want me hangin out with your freinds on your birthday, and im like yeh your the first person I'd call. and then he's like oh you wont get it.

so i let it go. thinking its his birthday let him do what he wants. but i dont know. do you think there's something going on? ive never me the other 2 girls before (they're best mates) and its really pissed me off

what do you guys think?

(and Ive wrote this whilst eating pasta, and im really really annoyed, so if anyone want to point out and ******* spelling mistakes then ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH)

does leanne's second name begin with B ?

does leanne's second name begin with B ?

Probably gonna go to s strip club or something - I did on my b'day.

Just be a good g/f...let him have his fun, then **** him when he comes home wasted - its his b'day after all!!

he's knows its upset me, but I acted like it was nothing....mainly cz I feel really guilty. oh and he doesn't drink so I doubt thats the issue

You're butters and he hates you!

Then its your fault if he doesn't notice how hurt you are. Men don't have magical powers to know what your thinking when your lying to us about it being ok. Either deal with it or tell him that it bothers and arrange something just for the two of you. That way you see him and he goes out with his m8s

gee thanks

well, i see your point, i'd really be pissed and confused, but many of the couples i know have this thing that they are awesome people individually, but when they go out together they are just the couple and just together and not really themselves, and its so much more amazing to be with each of them and yeah ...
but it depends on a lot, like your history, how long your together etc.

Then its your fault if he doesn't notice how hurt you are. Men don't have magical powers to know what your thinking when your lying to us about it being ok.