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Old 1 Week Ago: 12th November 2009 11:37 #41 
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Default Re: Had an affair with a member of staff at school
 
Originally Posted by SpamBa
If the OP has an early birthday he may have been 16 for their entire realtionship in which case it would have techinically been legal.

Although all schools have strict policies against this and if he choce to accuse her, and the allegations were proven, then she would lose her job and her reputation. Unless he was 15, she would not have to go on the register.

Actually if you have a position of trust/reponsibility for people 18 and under it's still considered an abuse of this trust to instigate a sexual relationship even if the age of consent has passed.

OP - go report it; it's as bad as a 40 yr old male teacher trying it on with a 16 yr old female pupil
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Default Re: Had an affair with a member of staff at school
 
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Actually if you have a position of trust/reponsibility for people 18 and under it's still considered an abuse of this trust to instigate a sexual relationship even if the age of consent has passed.

OP - go report it; it's as bad as a 40 yr old male teacher trying it on with a 16 yr old female pupil

Yes either way she would be dismissed and blacklisted for abusing her position of trust. But if he was over 16 (which he wasn't) she would probably not be put on the sex offenders register.
 
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Originally Posted by invictus_veritas
as in anything wrong that means she should spend the rest of her life on the sex offenders register for.

What she did was wrong, but he wasn't treated in a way that a lot of girls his age would have treated him so while it was wrong in some ways i.e. morally and legally, she should not have to face the consequences of it in any worse way than a girl his age would be if she had done the same thing. A girl his age would have gotten away with it as should this woman.

The fact of the matter is she is NOT a girl his age, she's a lot older and she should know better. The law is a bit vague about people between 16 and 18 but he was still legally a minor (if he was 16) and because she was in a position of authority over him it's a big no no!
 
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Originally Posted by invictus_veritas
. The media and public would no doubt portray her as some evil predator who preys on teenage boys but I really don't agree with it. I knew people involved in the recent CLSG case where the 15 year old girl had a sexual relationship with a music teacher and they genuinely loved each other - or at least it seems that way.

True that they would make her look evil, but if she is just ******* teenagers maybe she should be portrayed in that way. A physics teacher at my school had sexual relations with 3 girls aged 16,16,15, its been all over the news and he deserved it.

Maybe you should talk to the nurse about what to do, but she may get aggressive or try to seduce you again...

hmmmmm if i was in your situation i would 4get about it but i appreciate that that may be harder for some people.
 
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