First of all I'm not usually gullable and naive but I really feel like I am at this point. I've know this guy for three years and we've been really close friends. Too close. So close that every single person asks if we're an item. We did have a thing once but that's in the past. For a year now he's becoming increasingly overprotective and controlling but I kind of appreciate having someone there who cares about me so much.
Now he comes to my uni, commuting as it's fairly close by. But today infront of my friends he refused to enter the library, where a student card is needed on entry. I later found my friends searching his name on the uni database and it didn't come up. I dismissed this as merely a mistake in the system but now I think about it, things are starting to add up. I've made a list:
He is a student
- He tells me that he's just come out of his lecture and wants to meet
- He was allowed to have a day pass to the library for forgetting his card once, and they are only issued to students
- I have seen his work and notes he has made
- I have heard his friends while on the phone, walking to lectures with him
He isn't
- I have never actually seen him enter lectures
- Perhaps they don't check when issuing day passes (?)
- His work was law based and he's doing business and management
- He refuses to enter the library, but will go to the canteen where a uni card isn't needed
- He bought a bus pass for uni at £200 supposedly but tells me his mum keeps it from him. Instead he buys a £4 day rider everyday!
- No record of him on the uni database
- Becomes frustrated if I ask to see his card
- He mentioned today that he was thinking of dropping out and working full time
I know this is a long post and I apologise, but I feel like I really need some guidance as I'm completely lost and feel hopeless.