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Guys in their teens and 20s are a joke, older men 30+ are hotter and more attractive

Well as the title says...I'm 17 and don't find guys in their teens or 20s attractive at all really. They're so immature, and they are BOYS not MEN.

I wouldn't go near anyone under 30. I think once a guy gets to about 30 he is more of a man and not a boy. Men in their 30s, 40s and 50s are so damn attractive.

Older men can hold better conversations. They are more interesting as people cos of more life experience. Usually they've travelled more. And they know how to treat a girl better and have more sexual experience. Plus they are physically more attractive too IMO...they look more like men not boys. I like a bit of grey hair even. Looks in a guy aren't that important to me though, I more go for their personality. I feel safer and more like a lady when I'm with an older guy, but guys my age just seem so much like boys and I don't find that attractive.

Who else agrees with me that men 30 to 59 are the hottest out there?
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....and why would a 30 year old want to date a 17 year old kid, except for using you as a blow up doll?

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You like older men? :holmes:

How about men in the 120s?

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And why would they want to date you...?

I guess you'll have to stay single :h:
Wow, someone did an excellent job grooming you.
So by your argument, as soon as a guy turns 30 it's like a light switches on resulting in worldy wisdom, and suddenly 'phwoar :sexface:'? You sound as though you've never even met a boy, let alone a man.
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You feel more like a lady.



You look more like an escort.

Well done!
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I sort of agree. I've always preferred older men, and all of my exes have been at least 5 years older than me... It's not exclusive though, if I met an amazing guy his age wouldn't matter too much (then again I wouldn't really want a guy younger than me, that'd feel weird!) My 'type' generally tend to look older anyway... I have a strange love for beards, and it just so happens most beardy men are older :p:

I do think Advanced Subsidiary does have a point though, when I was 17 I (very briefly) went out with a 29-year-old, and now I look back and think he must have been at least slightly pervy. Oh well, you live and learn.

PS. Whoever negged this... WTF?
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Original post by Advanced Subsidiary
....and why would a 30 year old want to date a 17 year old kid, except for using you as a blow up doll?


So you think younger guys date for different reasons?
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Original post by mimimimi
I sort of agree. I've always preferred older men, and all of my exes have been at least 5 years older than me... It's not exclusive though, if I met an amazing guy his age wouldn't matter too much (then again I wouldn't really want a guy younger than me, that'd feel weird!) My 'type' generally tend to look older anyway... I have a strange love for beards, and it just so happens most beardy men are older :p:

I do think Advanced Subsidiary does have a point though, when I was 17 I (very briefly) went out with a 29-year-old, and now I look back and think he must have been at least slightly pervy. Oh well, you live and learn.


I don't think that's pervy at all, most men are biologically attracted to younger girls and 29 isn't too bad, though 30+ is better.
In all honesty, I'm much the same!
But only to lust after, a relationship with that big an age gap could never work!
You've completely idealised the idea of an older guy here. You only like the idea because you think it will distract people from what a boring person you most likely are.
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Original post by DeputyDog

Original post by DeputyDog
Well as the title says...I'm 17 and don't find guys in their teens or 20s attractive at all really. They're so immature, and they are BOYS not MEN.

I wouldn't go near anyone under 30. I think once a guy gets to about 30 he is more of a man and not a boy. Men in their 30s, 40s and 50s are so damn attractive.

Older men can hold better conversations. They are more interesting as people cos of more life experience. Usually they've travelled more. And they know how to treat a girl better and have more sexual experience. Plus they are physically more attractive too IMO...they look more like men not boys. I like a bit of grey hair even. Looks in a guy aren't that important to me though, I more go for their personality. I feel safer and more like a lady when I'm with an older guy, but guys my age just seem so much like boys and I don't find that attractive.

Who else agrees with me that men 30 to 59 are the hottest out there?


Pics please. :teeth:

Imo, late twenties/early thirties for me. :yep:
A lot of "boys" think the same about older women hence the term MILF.
I completely agree with you!
ok first if a 30 year old is dating a 17 year old he has a problem or is just weird, I am 22 and girls my age seem to be idiots, I have been stood up, used, lied to all that crap does that mean I want to be with a 35 year old woman....no, not every guy/girl is an idiot you just have to find the right one.
I get the whole older men thing, but would you really, honestly date someone in their late 50's, who could be older than your father, and possibly have kids older than you? I don't think I could, I reckon somewhere like 35 would be my limit age, and even that would be pushing it.
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Original post by DeputyDog
Well as the title says...I'm 17 and don't find guys in their teens or 20s attractive at all really. They're so immature, and they are BOYS not MEN.

I wouldn't go near anyone under 30. I think once a guy gets to about 30 he is more of a man and not a boy. Men in their 30s, 40s and 50s are so damn attractive.

Older men can hold better conversations. They are more interesting as people cos of more life experience. Usually they've travelled more. And they know how to treat a girl better and have more sexual experience. Plus they are physically more attractive too IMO...they look more like men not boys. I like a bit of grey hair even. Looks in a guy aren't that important to me though, I more go for their personality. I feel safer and more like a lady when I'm with an older guy, but guys my age just seem so much like boys and I don't find that attractive.

Who else agrees with me that men 30 to 59 are the hottest out there?


I used to think that as well (had a crush on my teacher back in high school) but to be honest, once you get to university, there are very mature men :colondollar: and you'll change your mind then.
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Original post by ?ored
I get the whole older men thing, but would you really, honestly date someone in their late 50's, who could be older than your father, and possibly have kids older than you? I don't think I could, I reckon somewhere like 35 would be my limit age, and even that would be pushing it.


35 pushing it? 35 is still pretty young for a guy I think, though old enough to be a mature man. And men of around 35 look good!

I'd deffo date someone in their late 50s if the chemistry was right yeah! But I doubt I'd marry them or have kids with them. But honestly it would entirely depend on the guy in question.

I think it's wrong to discount someone just because they're older/younger than you...if two people like each other then who cares about age as long as it's legal. It does have to be said, though, that men under 30 seem more immature and less manly to me.
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