[Anonymous]

Anon or delete please!

Me and my bf recently had sex for the first time. We're both virgins so we're inexperienced, and when we tried to have sex he had a really difficult time getting in? I have a very small frame so I thought that might contribute to it, but otherwise I don't really know what the problem is. We tried different positions, but it either just kept not going in or it would fall out.

Thanks for any help

[Anonymous]

I sort of had this problem too, except he wasn't a virgin. He could tell it really bugged me (because it did - I felt like I wasn't adequate enough or wet enough even) and he said, well, some people are just that tight lol... but apparently I was wet so he doesn't feel that it was because of that. Are you getting enough natural lubrication? We never tried lube (it feels better for him without lube in the end after we get it in lol) but maybe you should try a little bit? Just a dab in the beginning.

Maybe just trying to wiggle in a bit (sounds silly but I think it makes sense), foreplay, and maybe holding it open a little bit?

At least you can get it in though right... my boyfriend was once with someone who got really wet but was just way too tight for whatever reason and they couldn't get it in at all cos the pain would just kill her.

[int_applicant]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Anon or delete please!

Me and my bf recently had sex for the first time. We're both virgins so we're inexperienced, and when we tried to have sex he had a really difficult time getting in? I have a very small frame so I thought that might contribute to it, but otherwise I don't really know what the problem is. We tried different positions, but it either just kept not going in or it would fall out.

Thanks for any help

you should not be having sex

[PerkyScientist]

I'm quite small framed too I find lube helps alot

[*Dreaming*]

lube+foreplay

[trooper6]

(Original post by *Dreaming*)
lube+foreplay

This

Said that in another thread and got 2 neg reps lol.
I see this issue every week on TSR and find it unbelievable. There is no vagina on planet earth that is incapable of receiving the biggest dick on planet earth if there is sufficient lube and foreplay
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[alicebytemperley]

Don't worry - the first time I had sex, I was really tight and my boyfriend couldn't get it in. It took several attempts to 'break' my hymen and he was getting really frustrating! It did hurt the first couple of times, but now my vagina is looser and I can easily wear tampons etc. We didn't use lube, and foreplay wouldn't really help because it's more about your physical body than anything else. It's perfectly normal, though.

[I Love Dog]

Foreplay, lube.

[Mass debater]

try puttin a bag on.. he might nt be hard enough