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    Standing up blowjob
    My girlfriend is not enthusiastic about pleasing me so when it comes around, I take the chance! I have noticed that I can not orgasm if I am standing up. Is this normal because I am not relaxed? Please help!
  2. James''s Avatar
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    Close your eyes and pretend you're sitting down.
  3. OceanInTheSky's Avatar
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    Takes me aaaages if I'm standing up. Just sit or lie down.
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    My boyfriend doesn't like standing up for them (even though he loves it while hes lying down) because he says it feels wrong, like he's using me or it's degrading for me, even when I tell him I really don't mind it.

    Maybe it's that, or like you say maybe it's just not comfortable or relaxing so doesn't feel right.
  5. m45's Avatar
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    dont think ive ever had one standing up but i can imagine it would be annoying after a while
  6. Clumsy_Chemist's Avatar
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    I don't think it feels as good standing up either, it was appealing but turned out to be not as good as lying down
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    Damn, prefer doing them when the guy's standing up
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    (Original post by elixira)
    Damn, prefer doing them when the guy's standing up
    can I ask why? just curious
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    (Original post by Clumsy_Chemist)
    can I ask why? just curious
    Mainly to do with me being in sitting position - easier, comfier, more control so able to do a better job, and can usually take more in if he's into the face-****ing thing then fair enough, though, position doesn't really matter for me.
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    (Original post by elixira)
    Mainly to do with me being in sitting position - easier, comfier, more control so able to do a better job, and can usually take more in if he's into the face-****ing thing then fair enough, though, position doesn't really matter for me.
    Will you marry me?
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    (Original post by lemonkitty)
    my boyfriend doesn't like standing up for them (even though he loves it while hes lying down) because he says it feels wrong, like he's using me or it's degrading for me, even when i tell him i really don't mind it.

    Maybe it's that, or like you say maybe it's just not comfortable or relaxing so doesn't feel right.
    sluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut
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    (Original post by battyboybetterknow)
    sluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut
    twaaaaaaaaaat
  13. HARRY PUTAH's Avatar
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    More pressure inside that area and you're more relaxed whilst sitting down.

    Although prostate stimulating works either way but more accessible sitting down.
  14. gingerben's Avatar
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    personally i think they both do the same job....but thats just me =]
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    Many feel it feels better if a person is lying down, however it varies from person to person. For some it doesn't matter and doing it whilst they are standing up is just as effective.
    It just depends.
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My girlfriend is not enthusiastic about pleasing me so when it comes around, I take the chance! I have noticed that I can not orgasm if I am standing up. Is this normal because I am not relaxed? Please help!
    why stand when you can sit? Tell her to get on her knees.
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    Re: Standing up blowjob
    (Original post by elixira)
    Damn, prefer doing them when the guy's standing up
    It's merely habituation: he will have learnt to associate jizzing with a sitting or lying position. I've found different habits can generally be learned within two or three weeks going cold turkey on all forms of stimulation but the one you want to achieve.

    Or you could just stick a finger up his ass, it's totally underestimated.
    Last edited by Arekkusu; 07-12-2010 at 22:54.
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