Liking my best friend

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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    Liking my best friend
    I met my best friend at the beginning of this year and ive never got on with anyone better. But the last couple of terms we really flirt and i genuinly like him but he has a gf. But she treats him really badly. Advice would be much abliged. :/
  2. Roo Bix's Avatar
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    Re: Liking my best friend
    He should soon wise up, just keep doing what you're doing!
  3. Anonymous's Avatar
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    I just worry because she has never met me and 1st time she heard my name decided she hated me i can't meet up with him often and when we do generally someone else has to be there because he can't lie to her. She said she wanted to hurt me once. I think he'll always choose her over me. Lost cause?
  4. Aozora's Avatar
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    Re: Liking my best friend
    I liked my bestfriend once - it all ended in tragedy. I could write a cliche teen/angst novel about it - in fact I just might.
  5. Rotten Apple's Avatar
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    Nah, don't lose faith. Just keep being a good friend to him and wait and see. You never know what's around the corner!
  6. Converse's Avatar
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    If you hang in there and don't respond to his girlfriend's negativity, he'll soon dump her for you. Especially if she treats him badly.
  7. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Liking my best friend
    Have a sleepover with him and when he falls asleep, crawl under the sheets and ontop of him, then start kissing him and have coitus. Then the following morning tell him he has to choose between you and his gf. Works every time.
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    Re: Liking my best friend
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I met my best friend at the beginning of this year and ive never got on with anyone better. But the last couple of terms we really flirt and i genuinly like him but he has a gf. But she treats him really badly. Advice would be much abliged. :/
    I fell for my best friend at Uni (we were both single) We've been together almost 3 years now. I can't explain the feeling of being in a relationship with someone you'd consider a best friend, except to say it's amazing...

    BUUUUUUUUUUUUTTTTT I'm a big believer in being faithful and if he has a girlfriend I wouldn't consider it a good idea to pursue him (actively)... Even if she treats him badly, he's choosing to be with her and ultimately it's his decision to leave her for you. If you're both openly flirting, can't you just ask him, outright? The worst that could happen is he says "No, you've got that wrong, you're my best friend and nothing more" It might be awkward for a bit but it's best to know!

    Just be honest!
  9. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Liking my best friend
    I'm not sure because he's always flirted with me and basically says he wants to do things with m and didin't like me when i got with someone else yet he's just saying these things and has the gf :/ thanks everyone btw
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