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18, never had a boyfriend, never had a first kiss!

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Reply 40
hi.. reading your story sounds alot like my my high school experiece.. i only had a few friends and people also used to reffr to me as a "fish".. i'm 18 and have kissed guys but never when sober and only in night clubs.. my school experiences have improved though as i feel like i fit in alot more and i will acctually miss it when 6th form ends :frown: all i can say is give it time.. i think things do gradually improve.. and even if you have your first kiss at 19 or twenty it really doesn't matter.. its better than being taken advantage of just because u want to get it over with
good luck chick xoxo
Reply 41
Hi, I would just like to start off by saying those people at your school were vile to you. Second i am like you (Although i do not have a condition) i to find it hard to make friends and rarely go out and socialise. I would also like a bf but i have just not found anyone who i believe is compatible with me yet .I also rarely fancy anyone to :smile:
Reply 42
As soon as I stopped trying, it happend.
Reply 43
Original post by Anonymous
Hahaha, yeh surreeee :jumphug:

Where just to good for someone right now, right? :tongue: I need to get out there I reckon :wink:

Heh heh, I never knew it was that easy :cool:

In my case, I always thought it was by virtue of being an ugly git that I never have had a girlfriend, a kiss, or anything more than a friendly hug. Well, one of my friends put me right on that score: apparently I wasn't unpopular, I just had crap perception in that department. Moral of the story: if you like a guy, let him know, because there's always a chance he's a dumb pillock like me.
I've only ever kissed one person and only ever had one boyfriend, try not to worry about it and before you know it the situation will arise with the right guy :smile:
Ah don't worry OP: I'm 22 and have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss! :biggrin:
Reply 46
Original post by Tootles
Heh heh, I never knew it was that easy :cool:

In my case, I always thought it was by virtue of being an ugly git that I never have had a girlfriend, a kiss, or anything more than a friendly hug. Well, one of my friends put me right on that score: apparently I wasn't unpopular, I just had crap perception in that department. Moral of the story: if you like a guy, let him know, because there's always a chance he's a dumb pillock like me.


Bless youu, I think they need a rule book for this kind of stuff eh? :tongue:
hey im 16 and ive never been kissed, i have been really stressy about the same thing too but i just wanted to say that this forum has helped. its nice to see that im not alone. all of my friends have boyfriends or at least kissed. ive been feeling left out and im scared about getting left behind. i get a bit of attention from guys but there has been no one that i really like. the ones i do like always be the ones i cant have :L :L like i fancied my bestfriend's boyfriend for months!! and i fancied this guy i was 'seeing' (for like 2 weeks and it was all texting) bestfriend :s-smilie: but anyway, now looking at all these it sounds very normal :smile: hope you find your man :wink:
Reply 48
Original post by sassy123
Hi, I would just like to start off by saying those people at your school were vile to you. Second i am like you (Although i do not have a condition) i to find it hard to make friends and rarely go out and socialise. I would also like a bf but i have just not found anyone who i believe is compatible with me yet .I also rarely fancy anyone to :smile:


Thanks, my psoriasis is alot better now but I used to get flacky placs on my face :frown: Thankyou Mr. Dermatology :smile: I think my schooling hugely knocked my self image but it is improving, but I can't say I ever have really properly belonged socially. But hey ho, agian I am sure I will find the right sort of people one day:rolleyes:

And oh I have fancied someone, but I guess that crushed my confidence as well :s-smilie: I found someone I thought be perfect for me at school, turn out they would show interest but scarper as soon as I showed some back :erm:

Why does all this have to be so tricky eh? We will get there one day :console:
If you want to get it over and done with, try going to a nightclub and getting absoloutley **** faced.
Reply 50
Original post by SugarPuffs
If you want to get it over and done with, try going to a nightclub and getting absoloutley **** faced.


Read the above....:erm:
Original post by Anonymous
Read the above....:erm:


Ok well I hope you find someone soon whos worth your love/effort.
And? First kiss at 18. I knew a girl who had psoriosis who is now a model, but with serious self-esteem issues she's working on. The epitomy will be when you realise that no one really cares much, and you're going to live and die, so why not just enjoy life?
I'm not trawling through three pages of inane gibberish your adolescent Internet friends posted to console you but the problem could lie in you being either fat or ugly.

Solution: lose weight/lower standards.

Voila.
Reply 54
Original post by thegoodthebadandtheTom
Doesn't mean she has to settle for it. Everyone deserves to be loved :smile:


Says who?
Reply 55
Original post by The Unmerkable
I'm not trawling through three pages of inane gibberish your adolescent Internet friends posted to console you but the problem could lie in you being either fat or ugly.

Solution: lose weight/lower standards.

Voila.


Neither true, but thanks.

And yes I am an adolescent and I hate the fact it is taking me so long to mature, but we aren't all perfect :redface:
Original post by Anonymous
OP

I'm pretty much the same, I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend (well I had one in year 6 and 7, but that doesn't count), and I do know it's frustrating.. especially as all my friends are in, or were recently in really good relationships. To be honest, though, I'm actually fat.. and shy.. but I'm in the process of losing weight and gaining confidence and I hope to meet someone in uni in two years.

Seeing as you're not fat, though, it might be down to confidence.. or something like that. I also have social anxiety and rarely leave the house unless I'm going to work, college or up the shop.

When I look at the mess I'm in, it's not surprising I don't have a boyfriend, but at least I can change, which is a comforting thought - maybe you should look at your whole situation.. don't just jump to "omg i must be ugly" or "something mega is wrong with me". It just might be that the cookie hasn't crumbled in your way yet.
:smile: At least, that's how I view it now..

All the best for the future, babes.
Reply 57
Dont worry I had never had a boyfriend/been kissed before uni .... but it didn't take long til that changed. You'll be fine, uni's a clean slate and you meet so many people its more than likely that you'll be meet someone if your a happy confident person :smile:
I'm 19, not far off 20 and am in the same situation as you (and a guy) and I'm at uni, but it'll happen when its right :h:
if only there were more girls like you OP

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