[Anonymous]

Put your self in my shoes before I begin...
•on our first date he paid for food and after that always hesitated to pay for me after, yes I agree boys and girls should both have there share in paying but recently I always have to pay since he comes with no money or always forgets to go to the cash machine! I don't mind but he told me him self he's minted and last week we met I hadn't seen him for a month and we went out and I had to pay.
•doesn't see me much and I do understand his perants are strickt with him but we go to the same uni and even then he chose to see me once a week and never asked to have lunch with me in his frees.
• he's always saying I'm hot sexy pretty but I doubt he likes me for who I am.
• he has a foot fetish and he always looks at my feet I mean I font mind he's my boyfriend but the other day I caught him staring At my sisters feet too!!

I honestly did love him once but I'm afraid I don't anymore, he always says I love you to me and doesn't wana leave me when I say I can't be with him. He doesn't understand the things he does wrong.

I see him do things for his friends but not me, he didn't even buy me a birthday gift when it was my first bday with him. I didn't want anything big maybe a flower would have done.

What would u do? He is nice when he wants to be, does listen to me when I'm down just doesn't really give advise tho.

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(Original post by Anonymous)
I honestly did love him once but I'm afraid I don't anymore, he always says I love you to me and doesn't wana leave me when I say I can't be with him. He doesn't understand the things he does wrong.

this bit alone should be enough to make your decision for you. he just sounds a bit immature to be honest, perhaps he just needs to do some growing up before he's ready for a relationship. you don't feel appreciated or wanted and in the end that's going to have pretty bad repercussions one way or another. i'd suggest getting out of it and clearing your head of all the negative thoughts you've got about yourself and relationships and then finding someone who appreciates you.