GIRLS: Have your boyfriends asked you for anal sex, if so, did you say yes..?

I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.

Negged you. You can't say you won't enjoy it - if you've never tried it

Really? because I've never tried scat play or sleeping with a woman either and I'm still pretty sure I wouldn't enjoy either of those, so how about I don't judge what you like and you don't judge what I like!

Interesting that they stuck the bit about fortune tellers in there...

"Don't do people up the arse, don't shag while she is on... oh and don't go to fortune tellers either!"

Just googled scat play. It's not pretty....

Sleeping with a Woman however, is something you should try.

Don't knock it, till you've tried it.

I don't really understand why you got loads of +rep for this. I mean, it's great to stand up for yourself, but you make anal sex sound like a punishment (and not a good one ) for the receiver. I mean, I don't know what kind of boyfriend's people have, but personally, if I'm not enjoying something during sex, my boyfriend cares about that and we would change what we were doing to something we both would enjoy. Your attitude just sounds a bit too 'tit for tat' really. Surely your boyfriend asking for anal sex isn't him asking to abuse you so he can get off on it. He wants to explore something that some couples very much enjoy.

Plus he's an idiot for not wanting to explore anal play for him. Unless you insisted it was 'cucumber shoved up his arse' or nothing.



Anyways, I can't remember who asked who, but let's just say we're very happy we tried it out, because we love anal sex!

Negged you. You can't say you won't enjoy it - if you've never tried it

I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.

I've never understood this example. A guy having anal sex with a girl gives him pleasure. Most girls who do it, do it for their boyfriend's benefit and get pleasure from knowing he feels good.

Why would he let you put a cucumber up his arse if he wasn't into all that? You don't get anything out of it, unless you enjoy making him suffer of course and he won't (I don't care if there is a male "g-spot" there, if he didn't want it up there, it won't feel good).

For the same reason I'm not letting him put anything up mine.

But he would get pleasure from that. No-one would gain from the cucumber example.

Well that's all well and good for you, but sometimes it hurts to do it 'the normal way', so I'm not letting him put it anywhere else.
Also, we did try it once and it hurt like hell. I cried. Literally. And he keeps wondering why I won't let him anymore, so the cucumber up the arse was my response.

I've never understood this example. A guy having anal sex with a girl gives him pleasure. Most girls who do it, do it for their boyfriend's benefit and get pleasure from knowing he feels good.

Well that makes more sense. But your boyfriend sounds like a dick! Does he really care more for a good shag than your feelings? Why be with someone like that?

it just feels like having a big poo (im a girl)

I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.