[Anonymous]

I'm gonna keep this short or at least try. 7 years ago I met a guy online, I've always been quite good friends with him but then it turned into a more kinda flirty relationship.

We both lead active social lives, I don't think either of us could be defined as 'recluses', 'weirdos' or 'loners' & there's always been gaps between when we talk when either of us has had a bf/gf or sometimes we just don't speak for a while.

Recently, he came back into my life when he split up with his girlfriend. All of our interaction is through bbm/text btw, I haven't spoken to him online for years.

Anyway, he started telling me that he really liked me & was pissed off at me cause I got with another guy. He apparently wants to meet up, but the only thing that really pisses me off is that he still goes for periods of time - like for a week or two just ignoring me on bbm or text. Is it worth meeting up with someone like that? It just ****s up my head.

Just now he's ignoring me again and I haven't done anything wrong, should I phone him or something? i know his phone has been a bit dodgy recently apparently.

I'm not sure whether it's just best to cut my losses or not but to be honest I do like him & I know he's who he says he is.

Thanks for any help...

[Jon_D_M]

hes playing games dont fall for it

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Jon_D_M)
hes playing games dont fall for it

Thanks Im really not sure what to do :/

[BiggerRickenbacker]

He's playing you. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Some quite decent guys just accidentally overdo it. On the other hand he could be an unreliable nob. Sadly there is only one way of finding out.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by BiggerRickenbacker)
He's playing you. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Some quite decent guys just accidentally overdo it. On the other hand he could be an unreliable nob. Sadly there is only one way of finding out.

Haha I know he is, he's a cheeky sod! I just don't know how to react :/ especially when he tells me that he really likes me well if you did then you wouldn't cut me out like that!

[Anonymous]

bump

[fizzywizzy525]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Haha I know he is, he's a cheeky sod! I just don't know how to react :/ especially when he tells me that he really likes me well if you did then you wouldn't cut me out like that!

You've answered your own question.