The penis and vagina aren't any dirtier than a mouth though and I'll bet that you don't think kissing is at all dirty.
(Original post by AvatarMew)
YAY FREAKING KITTENS! ^_^... There is no using but ther eis dirtyness with using their mouths on the penis and vagina...
The only difference is that you shove food in through your mouth, and then it passes out of the urethra and anus when it's finished with. Waste products are not held within the external sex organs, they're held inside the body (rectum and bladder). As such, there are only trace amounts of wee and poo likely to be found down below. To be quite honest, unless you are rimming or licking the anus (in which case, please please use protection!) then you're only going to come into contact with very trace amounts of urine. During sexual arousal it's unlikely that any urine would be released at all (due to ejaculation and vaginal swelling) and so there's pretty much nothing to worry about. Normally people would practice good hygiene prior to letting someone stick their face between their legs anyway! So it's not really physically dirty at all.
Having vaginal fluids or semen inside your mouth (which shouldn't happen unless you're in a very loving relationship and clear of STIs anyway - otherwise a dental dam, condom, etc should be OK for protection) is really no different to having another person's saliva in your mouth!
Pyschogically - no sex is "dirty or wrong" unless it is causing harm to you or another, or plays on the innocence/inability to refuse of another. If a female finds it degrading (and it really isn't, she's holding one of the most powerful parts of the man between her teeth - she's in a position of power!) then to force her into it would be wrong. And to call one a slut for desiring sexual stimulation in a particular, unharmful and very normal way, is wrong.
If you believe that it's degrading for you, noone's forcing you into it - that doesn't mean however that everyone else finds it degrading and if they enjoy it, so be it. Your feelings might make it "dirty" for you but that doesn't mean it's bad in general. If you are being called a slut - which isn't likely to happen and isn't often portrayed in society - it's best to get out of that relationship.
Last edited by daisydaffodil; 29-02-2012 at 20:13.