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Penis size worries

Hi all

Before anyone posts, please be tolerant and considerate of my inner struggle with the issue.

I am a brown male, 20 years old. Since I became 18, I would be very apprehensive about my penis size (5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection), as I would see the actors in porn and feel that I would never measure up in either dimension.

I have had sex with only one girl in my life and she was very much satisfied with the sex we would have, and I was no longer worried about my size. We broke up now so Im not having sex anymore. The thing is that I was her first and she probably never had any expectations, and these days my worries about my penis size are returning, and I keep on thinking this will probably never be enough for the woman I will spend my life with in the future.

I never really talked to anyone about it since it is embarrassing and I don't really know how other males of my ethnicity measure up. So I wanna know if this size is okay or not.

Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?
Reply 1
Original post by Anonymous

Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?


Buy a convex mirror, that'll make things look a little better.
Hey i think thats fine! I wouldnt worry about it. I know guys a lot smaller so seriously, dont worry!
Reply 3
buy the bib starter hanging device
Well that's a decent size, and around average. It's also about what you do with it not how big it is so don't worry about it!
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
My penis 5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection

So what you are saying is that you have an average sized penis... :s-smilie:
Seriously, these ''im worried bout my penis size'' threads gotta stop...
I wouldn't say that's at all small...and I think that the size means so much less to girls than you'd think - it's not so much about the size, but more what you can do with it :smile: (and don't compare to porn..they're abnormally mahooosive, and might even have the adverse effect of hurting the woman because of being too big!).
Reply 8
Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!
Reply 9
You should stop comparing your size to that of porn actors. A lot of camera trickery and fluffing is done in order to make a guy as big and unrealistic as possible. Your penis is entirely average and I certainly wouldn't complain at that girth.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi all

Before anyone posts, please be tolerant and considerate of my inner struggle with the issue.

I am a brown male, 20 years old. Since I became 18, I would be very apprehensive about my penis size (5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection), as I would see the actors in porn and feel that I would never measure up in either dimension.

I have had sex with only one girl in my life and she was very much satisfied with the sex we would have, and I was no longer worried about my size. We broke up now so Im not having sex anymore. The thing is that I was her first and she probably never had any expectations, and these days my worries about my penis size are returning, and I keep on thinking this will probably never be enough for the woman I will spend my life with in the future.

I never really talked to anyone about it since it is embarrassing and I don't really know how other males of my ethnicity measure up. So I wanna know if this size is okay or not.

Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?


Don't compare to porn, that is unrealistic. I am brown and mine is 6.5 inches so I think it's average. Don't worry about it.
Reply 11
Original post by navarre
Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!


Take me to bed!
Reply 12
dont worry to much about it, if iremember my figures correctly thats more or less averege for a white male :smile: and comparing it to porn stars well i wouldnt if i was you theyre in the minority and picked for their 'prowess'
as for getting it thicker ... im not sure of any 'proven' methods but if memory serves something called jelqing may help you :smile:
Reply 13
The average length is supposed to be 5.5 inches.
Reply 14
OP here

Thanks for all the replies. It does really help when others say its fine :smile:

I think Jelqing helps though. they have forums and everything for that, where a lot of people have increased length and girth after MONTHS of exercise. I will try and see if it helps my in the next few months.
Reply 15
Original post by navarre
Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!


mate, that is not worth bragging seriously. It is only 3 quarters of an inch longer than mine, and i am asian, so not impressive!
It's not the size that matters, it's knowing how to use it!
Original post by 09001904
mate, that is not worth bragging seriously. It is only 3 quarters of an inch longer than mine, and i am asian, so not impressive!


But every half inch is significant, it makes a diff. If he was 3/4 bigger he would be close to 7.5..
Reply 18
itds below average but not bad.

google jelqing and you can gain 1-2 inches
Tell me about it. I've only got a 6" (6.4" if I dig deep into the skin) with a 5.5" girth. :frown:

Plays on my mind a lot to be honest

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